Anna86 Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 Does anyone ever wonder why all of a sudden you move on?? And then that stupid ex decides to contact you. Well, today, I am serious, is the FIRST day where I was not thinking of ex. I even blocked him off IM today as I had enough of seeing his stupid face pop up. So, out of nowhere he just there he sent me an email thanking me for something I did for him loooong ago. It didn't say anything much but 'thank you for inspiring me' and some other crap.....What does that mean?? Why did he just send it? It was pointless. He is seeing someone now. So what should I do?? I know I should ignore. Any ideas on this???
Mack05 Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 Anna don't let this set you back. Use it as motivation going forward. What he wants is immaterial and not your concern. When someone says 'thank you' or 'sorry' genuinely, then there is no need to reply. Your getting there, don't take a step backwards...
nikkinicole36 Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 I would just ignore it. To entertain the thoughts behind it will only drive you crazy and make your healing worse.
Author Anna86 Posted June 29, 2011 Author Posted June 29, 2011 I just wb 'Thats okay. Your welcome''.... I just sent it and put it behind me. If I didn't wb I feel that it makes me look bitter or something so I just left it at that.
Avelia Posted August 25, 2011 Posted August 25, 2011 Lol sometimes I think this is soo creepy...it's almost as if they can smell it 100 miles away haha After I broke up, there was once when I was happily occupied with something else and not thinking about my ex for the first time then all of the suddence I got his first txt msg then days later same happened - he emailed me when I least expected it I guess it's only when they sense that they are really losing you they would really start to miss you
fetish1980 Posted August 25, 2011 Posted August 25, 2011 how funny and true this is. it's like they have a radar that senses when you're moving on. A few months ago, i wasn't thinking of my ex and all of a sudden i get a text saying: "Can we talk?". Then she calls me. fetish
smudge21 Posted August 25, 2011 Posted August 25, 2011 It either happens when you've moved on, or when you've met someone new. I do think there's a sixth sense there. The same way we feel bad when they leave us and we just go through all that imagining them having a great time etc, well for them it's like they know when we're no longer thinking about them. Either way, depending on how the break up was, it is amusing when a dumper makes contact and you simply don't care. Sorry, you had your chance, bye.
Nohbody Posted August 25, 2011 Posted August 25, 2011 If you've really moved on, hopefully it won't matter and you can go about your life without too much distraction. Hope you all the best.
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