whoahman07 Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 for the last week a girl i have been seeing has been a little distant. i finally approached her on the issue and she said that she has been pushing me away because she is scared. she is scared of liking me alot. now we are both in college and she is in a sorority and she told me about how her freshmen year she was in a serious relationship and felt guilty if she went out to bars with her sorority. i told her that im not like that that i dont care if she goes out and has fun that she needs her time with her friends as much as i need time with mine. i told her to stop pushing me away because she is doing it for reason that arent true just based on her past. she says she is sorry about it and even her friends have told her that its stupid. she admits that when she starts to like someone she does this but has admitted that im perfect for her. What should i do?
CasualNinja Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 I feel like I'm in the very same boat as you. I can see I'm perfect for my girl, but she is deadset on still going out and partying. The only advice I can give is don't try to be the savior, and just go with your heart man, that means more than anything
alexlakeman Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 KIDS>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> You are in college, You can't have a relationship!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL.. what happens in college; stays in college :bunny::bunny:... just f)ck like :bunny::bunny::bunny: as many of them as you can, enjoy it while you are young...forget the "relationship" at that stage, seriously
Realitycheck1 Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 When a girl says something like, "I'm scared of liking you a lot.". That is her way of saying, "I am not sexually attracted to you." I want you to please trust me on this: If she was attracted to you, she wouldn't be saying things like that.
vsmini Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 If someone is trying to push me away I let them. Someone wants to walk out of my life, for whatever reason, I let them. If she's afraid of really liking you then that's her issue. Do not waste your time trying to change her mind.....when most chumps (i mean guys) hear that a woman is "scared" they take it as a sign to just try harder - which a lot of game-playing women really, really like. They want to be chased more and more. I bet if you back off she'd find excuses to come around and talk to you. See how "Scared" she is then.
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