sanjaygautam.itsg Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 please help me any one i am a guy, i can't live without she, 3 months before i join to job that day i saw that girl but i never feel any on the first meet she also join to the job on the same day when i join, from the first day she always try talk with me and when i come to the office reception she looks me and smile also talk for long, share with me much more after posing three, four days one day in my company they arranged general meeting so every employer must to attend that i also went to that meet, but little late she was waiting in front office when i enter to office she suddenly went to the meeting hall, in meeting hall there is only the last row empty for sit, in last row there is four chars empty she arrange the chars like i sit with her so i sit near her. that day i saw in her face very happy and the speeches also very happy mood after finessing the meeting everyone moved me also. she asked to me you are going ? i said yes, she's face become very sad, eyes filled with water that time i get love with her because a person who feel for me. also i decide she in love. next day i went to office before day i missed my cap on my char she keep that and when i asked to someone about my cap suddenly she takes that from she's hand bag that day passes as-usual next day she told next month my sisters marriage so i going to her native next month i said very good news do you give any party for this news ? she told ho, i can't but for my marriage you must to give the party for all of our friends and relatives (in south India the groom must to give a party for the couples family friends) on that evening i went my home and told to my mother everything and asked to my mother, let i get marriage with that girl ? My mother says first invite that girl to here we will discuss with she and she's family. on that day is a most beautiful day on my life ever be like that, next day evening i ask to she can you come to my home my mother want's talk with you, suddenly she turns her face on right side and she enjoyed herself and she told i will come to your home on day after tomorrow because today i want to go same were. but some of days she talks with someone with her mobile but i am sure what she talking with whom also. after couple of days one day she doesn't come to the office at morning she came at afternoon itself and she share something to her friend just i enter and asked what happen today are you leave ? she says no today i going to my native and i ll back on next month also i going to join another company i has better opportunity she says like this. then i asked you said coming to my home but now ?? she says "simply no interest" and bye. my heart blast i can't say in words only 12 day relationship but never forgettable what happens to the girl why she avoided me now my level is very bad mentally and physically i am unfit i never been before like this its a my first love and i can't loss it, please help me give a good suggestion please.
Maoky Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 A lot of the hurt we feel from such brief 'relationships' is from thinking too much about 'what if'. What if they were the perfect one for me, what if I just let her slip away, what if I won't find someone else, what if, what if... I'm sure you'll find someone who you'll feel even stronger about. I mean, you knew this person for a few days. Objectively, how far could your emotions have truly progressed for this girl. There are more opportunities out there, don't get stuck on this one. And please please structure your post! It's unfair for us repliers to have to swim through a wall of text and offer any consolation if you make it so difficult for us.
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