sun_moon Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 It's been quiet on the forefront of Gisele. I'm hoping that she is somewhere vacationing, sun bathing, dancing, meeting new guys, and the best part completely away from her ex and the new girl. I'm taking it as a good sign we haven't heard from her. I wish her well.
AlisaMarie Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 It's been quiet on the forefront of Gisele. I'm hoping that she is somewhere vacationing, sun bathing, dancing, meeting new guys, and the best part completely away from her ex and the new girl. I'm taking it as a good sign we haven't heard from her. I wish her well. I have returned after 6 months and it was a good sign that I wasn't here anymore. But now I am back. Whaaaa!
AlisaMarie Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 I'm afraid to ask why you are back. Well... the same guy. Same game. Yo-yo? If you feel like it you can read my stats. However, history repeats itself, even in round two... three... and four.
Author sun_moon Posted June 29, 2011 Author Posted June 29, 2011 I'm sorry to hear that. I will read them soon. Hang in there, we are all in the same ****ing miserable boat, and we will hit a sunny shore soon.
AlisaMarie Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 I'm sorry to hear that. I will read them soon. Hang in there, we are all in the same ****ing miserable boat, and we will hit a sunny shore soon. I hope so hun. I am so sick of these games and bs. I would never treat someone the way I have been treated, from ALL of my exes. Maybe I need to change my own ways. I kinda like me though.
wilsonx Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 ugh, well at least you know now hopefully. I do not know, personally I do not want to be in relationships like you ladies and like my friends. They continuously chase the same person only to wait for them, start dating them again, and get hurt all over again Life's too short for this, this is the 2nd time shes done this to me and Im done chasing
Author sun_moon Posted June 29, 2011 Author Posted June 29, 2011 To clarify, I was with him for 2 years, no on and off, just fights. One long relationship. No, I don't go back to exes. He can go screw himself.
AlisaMarie Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 To clarify, I was with him for 2 years, no on and off, just fights. One long relationship. No, I don't go back to exes. He can go screw himself. I like your attitude! I became your typical doormat... and where I am at now, I'd sadly do it again. I don't know how to stop my issues.
Sugarkane Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 I also hope Gisele is ok too, I can relate to her story as my first boyfriend did exactly the same thing to me years ago.
Mack05 Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 She is good...Now that she doesn't have to see them I think she has moved on. She got exactly what she needed from the site. Like many people do.
nini Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 It's been quiet on the forefront of Gisele. I'm hoping that she is somewhere vacationing, sun bathing, dancing, meeting new guys, and the best part completely away from her ex and the new girl. I'm taking it as a good sign we haven't heard from her. I wish her well. I have been thinking of her as well a few times when I've come on LS. I hope she's in a happy place as she deserves to be
Gisele Posted July 12, 2011 Posted July 12, 2011 Ive been lurking here and there (lol...), but i never saw this thread! Im really touched you were thinking of me Ive been doing much better, and felt like I was going in circles and just being repetitive in my threads, so stopped posting. I know that as a couple they're getting more and more serious, and ive become more resigned and calm about it all. It still hurts some days, but i don't feel the same anxiety and overwhelming sadness about it on a daily basis. Im starting to remove myself from the situation completely, instead of feeling like im being looked at with pity Am terrified about going back to med school and facing them again, and the possibility of a complete relapse, but everyone here has been such an incredible support to me, and i know that without this place, id still be a complete mess Ive started dating again too, just casually, which has lifted my spirits Reminded me of how men treated me, before him. I can see myself coming back for some support before having to face them, but until then im trying to use the summer to distract and better myself I can't thank you all enough for all the help and kind words you gave me when i needed it most xo
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