murah989 Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 (edited) This is probably the most push/pull girl I've ever met, and even though I know there's no way it would work out, I just want clarification as to what was going through her head. Our story begins on OKC; the normal messaging spiel which resulted in me meeting her months ago. Wasn't so much a date, as I just wanted to meet her while she was volunteering for a show. Quick meet and greet, whatever. Fast forward 2 months later, she has a boyfriend now but we've become pretty cool friends on facebook. She would always comment on status' and pictures and whatnot. Fine..Whatever.. Fast forward to a month ago...she breaks up with boyfriend...and I start noticing she's messaging on OKC. Little messages here and there, nothing special...but the chemistry is great. Calling/texting/FB/OKC communication increases 10-fold, but I keep it playful and friendly (I don't want to date her at this point, but an interest was always there). Last weekend I decided I wanted her to come out with a friend of mine to a beer bar. I'm looking at her as a friend, but always keeping my options open. As the night progresses, I'm realizing how ****ing awesome she is and I start flirting. We're at the bar, getting blitz, having a good time. She starts to come closer and puts her arm around me and places her forehead against mine. Our noses touch...then soon...our lips! At which point she says "NO" and backs away. We both played it as nothing happened and continued with the night. There comes a point where she wants to come back to my place because she isn't feeling well. I'm not the type to take advantage of women, so I drove her home and took care of her while she made love to my toilet XD. I should also mention, that on the drive home, she put her hand on my pants. Every so often she would start inching closer to my privates, but would then back off.( Then the next morning when I was jokingly mentioning this, she said it was a *test* to see where I stood with her I.E. if I would try to take advantage of her O_o) Gave her fresh cloths and fed her crackers. I'm leaving my room to get more water, and when I came back, she was completely naked! We both crawled into bed and fell asleep. I didn't want to have sexy-time with le drunk girl... Next morning we wake up and spend hours and hours talking and having fun. We were in bed from 9am-5pm!! Chemistry and communication is great...but I'm slowly realizing that she likes older guys. It's just the way she talks to me is so much fun...she even tries to play her self off as this Well-to-do business women. I could tell she wanted me to think she was great. Which to me, means that she likes me...but idk. Anyway, long story, but in the end we're still talking. Communication is still great, but I don't know where we actually stand. I'm afraid she's just one of those girls who has this amazing personality with everyone...you know..the one that is just playful, but doesn't actually like you.....Phew Edited June 29, 2011 by murah989
JadedAmore Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 I've been told I'm guilty of this, one friend went so far to say "J, you're very easy to fall in love with." I call bull, but whatever. Why not just tell her how you feel? If you think there is chemistry and connection, ask her if she'd be interested in going out on a date sometime -- what could it hurt?
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