buster2209 Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 It's been a long time coming, but i've finally told my wife of 2 years (5yrs together) that I love her no more. She is in complete 'save it all costs mode' but I am done. Absolutely spent and done. She has gone to her friends for a week to 'let me think' in the hope I will change my mind but I just want a divorce. The thing is, the problem I am having is that I keep making stupid mistakes in my daily life. Really stupid things at work and with friends. Nothing that can't be fixed mind, but it feels like my head is on vacation. I can't even decide what I want to eat. It's frustrating the **** out of me. Has anyone gone through this type of behaviour before given the scenario I described above? If so, why?
coolheadal Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 Take a vacation away from her. If you can do a 3 week one go and find yourself. First. Sounds like your wife won't let you go!
PegNosePete Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 It sounds like your head is messed up and you need to make some decisions, and take some action. If the marriage is over then see a lawyer and file for divorce. If you think it can be saved then do whatever it takes to save it. But either way - get on with it. I think the "mistakes" you're making are simply because you're so distracted.
oldguy Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 I'm confused; your making mistakes because you are married to her?
Author buster2209 Posted June 29, 2011 Author Posted June 29, 2011 I'm juggling too many balls at the mo so I decided to put some down before I drop them and break them. Yeah, the marriage is over. It's been over for a while but I wasn't consciously aware until a few weeks ago.
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