KrissyT Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Hello Everyone. I found this forum off of the search engine. I have been having some serious issues involving my husbands ex-wife. We started seeing eachother 5 years ago at our place of work. At the beginning I was unaware of their marriage. We seemed so compatible that by the time I did find out, I was too head over heels. I felt awful going behind their vows to see eachother but couldn't help it. It seemed the forbidden nature made the sex even more amazing and maybe made him more amazing than he actually was as well. People and things always seem much better than they are when you know you can't have them. He came up with many excuses as to why he was looking outside their marriage such as sexual and emotional compatibility voids. My husband is much older than I; about 20 years. The major issue is his ex-wife whom will not stop harassing and stalking me. I have tried speaking to her and easing her pain but ever since making an effort to be civil, it has gotten much worse. I feel like she is always around now and that I have someone watching me. My husband's and my master suite is on the main level and once night while we were making love, I heard something lean or tap against the window. I was startled and ran to the window where a car quickly sped off. I'm afraid out of anger my hubby has made the issue much worse. His ex demanded reasons for their separation and he claimed it was sexual in nature. I could not believe he could say something so cruel and it also questions his character. I will now be on the receiving end of any grievances. I do not wish to look over my shoulder or have my tires slashed in the morning any longer. I begged my hubby for us to leave the area but he has too much a stake in his job. We had to get a restraining order against her and afterwards things calmed down for only a while! Now she is up to the same crap and there really is no proof until one of us ends up hurt.
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