wilsonx Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 the "day after" and it ain't too bad... I missed her usual morning drive call to work but I quickly got that thought out of my head when I told myself it probably hasn't even crossed her mind... folks when they have their eyes elsewhere just let them go and move on and go buy a lottery ticket because you have a better chance in winning that than you do in having a good and lasting relationship with someone who thinks you are disposable.... true story i won 500 dollars the day after she broke up with me, she was sitting at the table bc she didnt have a place to go and the ticket was just sitting there and she said in a snide remark good luck with that. i scratched it off and it was a 500 dollar winner and i said hahaha this is the best day of my life... she got really pissed off
Author andyg99 Posted July 3, 2011 Author Posted July 3, 2011 tough night last night, took my kids and some friends to see Transformers last night and was feeling really down... My mind kept drifting to 'what is she doing' - this is the weekend she went to meet her on-line dreamboat... well today is a bit better - sometimes when you look at the hard facts it reminds you that you don't need trash in your life. as a friend told me on Friday you put her in the position where she has nowhere to live and she has to think of the well-being of herself and son, she should be scrambling to get that in order but what does she do? she leaves the boy behind (who is scared a devastated) and flies half way across the country to meet someone she has never seen.... it's one thing to use and step on adults but to abandon your own child is pretty f-d up in my book.... now why exactly did I want that person in my life? it's time for me to look inside and learn from this (and to look after the well-being of that kid because his parents could give a s--t)
love is dangerous Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 i think shes taken you for a mug and she sees that too much of a nice guy , and why are you so close to her kid with another man , shes your ex, you shouldnt have let yourself get close to him , my dad has never even seen my half sister. he just took us out . are you sure your not holding on to her through this son, i say you let go there not your responsibility.
Sassygirl2 Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 Hi Andy, Glad to hear she's gone. I'm sorry you are hurting but it will get better, I promise. You seem like a geniune guy and she has taken advantage of you and your goodness. How is it going with your son? Is he staying with you yet? Sassygirl
Author andyg99 Posted July 12, 2011 Author Posted July 12, 2011 Hi Andy, Glad to hear she's gone. I'm sorry you are hurting but it will get better, I promise. You seem like a geniune guy and she has taken advantage of you and your goodness. How is it going with your son? Is he staying with you yet? Sassygirl yes, he is with me now, the first week she had zero contact with him... I have yet to have any contact with her since she left and to tell you all the truth I haven't felt this good in years... she's a deadbeat and has pretty much abandoned her own child so she can find "happiness". She led me on but that was my choice, I knew what I was getting into when she moved in. I know the boy is not my responsibility but sometimes you do right thing... So not talking to her in 2 weeks has made me take off the rose-colored glasses and see her for who she really is....
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