AmericanHoney Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 I have been talking to him since last week and we went out on 3 dates had a wonderful time,etc,etc. He would always call me all the time but lately he has stopped. He only calls when it's something random or he will text me randomly. I asked him if we were cool and he said of course we are! Why is he playing these games?? It is almost like he is blowing hot and cold air.
thehead Posted June 29, 2011 Posted June 29, 2011 You've only known him since last week. You've had 3 dates. He still texts and calls. Cool your jets. Sounds like things are fine.
spacegirlspiff Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 You need to keep it cool. If he likes you, he'll come to you eventually. Being needy will only push him away.
Forever Learning Posted July 3, 2011 Posted July 3, 2011 Yes there are a number of possibilities, the ones others have mentioned are totally valid as possibilities. Only time will tell. You've only known him a week but then again, I have been thru this situation before so I will mention another possibility. One other possibility is that he is a player and he only came on strong at first to see if he could get laid. He decided you aren't the easy type so you may be rotated to the back burner while he pursues other interests and lets you warm up more to his charms over time. Beware of this but don't judge him as a player yet, just wait and see how it unfolds. Have boundaries with him and try to really get to know him first so you don't get used and played. Good luck.
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