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I have come to find that the rejection part is what i hold onto. Of course, being in the same circle of friends and seeing my ex often, and dealing with him and other girls is hard....I keep blaming myself. I have been there, done that with him...the ex sex hoping it'd change things, the waiting hoping my phone would go off and he'd miss me etc. I have never begged or harassed him though. However, now that I see him into a new relationship (after breaking up with me bc he didnt want one a few months ago), I keep asking myself...why is she better than me? why doesnt he want me? We did not have a volatile relationship at all, but he admits having problems in terms of dating in that he can just shut his feelings off. I will never know i suppose what fully went wrong, maybe he wont either..nor do we ever get full reasons why someone dumped us

 

Anyone else struggle with this? I dont even have low self esteem, i dont hate myself or who I am at all...but this rejection is beating me down.

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