Simon Ohlund Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Hello Im beginning to feel scared of myself. Im only 21 years old which is quite young. But i have always had this problem with women but not just women. People in general. I got my diagnosis when i was about 11 years old which is a form of autism in the autistic spectrum called atypical autism. I dont know what that is but its not aspergers its a more mild type of autism. Ive always been the shy,introverted,akward,loner type. But now i feel that there is something which is building up inside of me. All my frustration and all my rage towards women who have betrayed me in the past. Can it really be that way if you have always been the quiet shy guy that suddenly your personality can change when you reach and become an adult? And ive also read this diary of George Sodini the guy who went to the la fitness gym and shot up a bunch of women. And it scares me to death knowing that im just like him. I really dont want to turn into this guy. I want to become a strong and independent guy. But its hard knowing when you dont have any female friends either. Because if i had i might would get some tips from them. Knowing more how i can approach women without looking needy or awkward because of my diagnosis. Because i feel my diagnosis someday will end up with suicide. And this is not only just for women. Its for people in general. Social problems. Sorry for the whining. But i just needed this to be written and seen. So if you can help please let me know. Bye.
TheLawmaker Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Have you seen a therapist? This is very important, because you're identifying with a very sick minded individual. George Sodini wasn't only just a desperate man looking for female attention, he also was a narcissist, a racist, a sexist pig, and a violent person who hated his parents and his own religion and sexuality. To identify with him is not healthy, and it says to me that you have a lot bigger problems than dating. To introduce myself, my name is J. I am 28 years old, never kissed a girl, never been in a relationship, never had sex. I have no experience with women. I am average looking and overweight. Women tend to ignore me, except as friends. I have plenty of friends, but have to turn to porn to get my sexual fix. Does any of this make me angry at women? Sure. Do I want to go into a gym and shoot a bunch of women, who aren't responsible for making me lonely? Hell no! I'm glad you have discovered that you have this problem, but the key is to fixing it before it eats you alive. Women are not required to date you, any more than you are required to date unattractive women. The dating world is unfair, and there are plenty of monsters, all with big teeth and sharp claws. You have to learn to deal with that, otherwise you will go insane.
phillyfan Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Dude ur young u have the world goin 4 u evn if u dont think so. The thing about datin is that sometimes its crappy, sometimes its good, everyone finds it tuff sumtimes, and if u think women are the problem then geez, read a few more msgs on these forums specially the OW one, the women get crapped on by guys WAY more than thy crap on us, lol :D Anyways i am pretty cut n in the best shape eva, n its stil a numbers game 4 me, ive dated some hot girls, models, but thn been turned down by pretty avrage chicks, just the way it goes its a numbas game, thats all, u need confidence. Dont identify with that nasty POS n if u r scarin urself thinkin bad things then u need 2 go see a therapist quik n he wil help u. Dude u have a lot goin 4 u try 2 focus on the good n dont hate on the girls, girls are pretty cool evn if it takes u a wile 2 find one
LadyFlame Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Not all people with these violen thoughts actually commit them; my ex used to fantasize on a daily basis about murdering people and would watch violent Japanese films to help this craving he had. Doubt he'd actually do it though. Society can be a big barrier. Even if you have those thoughts, whether you choose to act on them or not is your own choice. Still, might be worth remembering that the women you might end up killing on this killing spree idea will be mothers, daughters, sisters ... And that's an unforgivable sin, to kill an innocent.
TheLawmaker Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 I personally hate guns. I am trained, and am a good shooter (former Boy Scout), but I would never aim a gun at anybody unless they were attacking me in some way. A person who shoots innocent people is a coward. He'd rather hurt others than deal with his own issues.
utterer of lies Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 A person who shoots innocent people is a coward. He'd rather hurt others than deal with his own issues. That, or he's a soldier or mercenary.
TheLawmaker Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 That, or he's a soldier or mercenary. Not cool, man. Wars are necessary, I don't like them but they're necessary. I have a friend stationed in IRAQ. Call him a killer to his face, and see what happens.
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