shanemike88 Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 A few months ago I recently just gave up on a girl I've been on and off with for 3 years. It was just a random day I woke up and told her that this isn't working for me. I was miserable and so was she. I gave her stuff back that was left at my house and she gave me my stuff back which I think surprised her even more because usually we would keep something that belonged to one of us just to have a reason to call. Well this past weekend I saw her out at the beach and I was debating on saying hello to her but I didn't because I didn't want to look like a fool if she gave me a cold shoulder so I decided to ignore it. Last night she texted me ( I ignored it) and then wrote a facebook message saying how she sold her spot in her beach house because she doesn't want to deal with me anymore. If you read old posts this is the same ex who would come to the bar I work at every weekend knowingly that it hurt me seeing her. I didn't go out of my way to find her on the beach we just crossed paths. She pretty much even said that "it sucks I have to follow her because she can't have a good time." So I guess I am now a stalker too. I refuse to get sucked back in and especially now because I am dating somebody even though its not serious I still enjoy whatever is going on between myself and the girl I am currently seeing. Anyway I never responded to any of the texts or facebook messages. If she contacts me again should I reply and tell her to stop? Or should I keep ignoring?
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 I would keep ignoring the messages/calls/texts unless it gets out of control. meaning she is messaging you multiple times per day. from what I gather from your post, and I don't know who broke up with who here, she feels like she is the dumpee. if she broke up with you and you two always kept something of each others before, I think you giving all her stuff back was a wake up call for her saying "hey, it's 100% over now". keep ignoring her unless it gets out of control, then kindly tell her that you need NC.
Chi townD Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Yep! You're right. She's trying to get a rise out of you and trying to draw you back in. Just ignore it. Let her vent until the cows come home. You know the truth.
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