lunita Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 My ex broke up with me a year ago in May. I didn't want it to end and so I pretty much chased him and was "back together" with him....sort of. Anyhow, he ended up breaking it off once again. At that point I quit cold turkey. Didn't chase him like I did the last time. That was it. I tried, DONE. These are some of the things he's done since October after we broke up: 1) Had a friend hit me up on a dating site. I knew what was going on and talked **** about him on purpose to see if it would get back to him. It did, he was furious. Texted me about it. Then that was that. 2) In Feb he came to my house and left me a calendar I made for his birthday when we were together. Left it at my door. They were bikini shots of myself. The calendar was even expired and when we broke up and he tried to give it back I told him he could burn it or throw it out but that I wasn't gonna take it. He even put it in a bubble wrap envelope and taped it up nice. No nasty notes, no scribbled faces. How sweet. Dork. 3) "Mistakingly" texted me 3 weeks ago instead of his sister. We share the same name, his sis and me but when we were together he showed me how he entered our names differently so he would never mix us up. He never did mix us up and now after months of NC bam? Whatever dude. 4) Texted my sister in law a week ago asking if their place of business was unharmed during some stuff that went down in the city. She answered that all was fine, no damage to be polite and then he went on about how he had surgery and how he has been so busy working on his house and asked how they were. She didn't answer for obvious reasons. Um....wtf? 5) Other stuff includes blocked phonecalls on Friday or Sat nights but I'll give him the benefit of the doubt and assume it's not him. You will all be proud to know that I did not contact him in any of these instances. Unless he has the balls to call me for real, this **** is just fluff to me. But seriously. Why bother???? He broke my heart and I was in a bad place for a long time but have worked very hard to be happy again. What's his deal and is this the end or will he give up since I've been so hard core NC? I'm dating and trying to move on and this throws me off. It's obnoxious. Thoughts?
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