AlisaMarie Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 If I asked my ex to still go on vacation with me? We had reservations and I took the time off. Now the time is approaching. Maybe I just worry he's going to take someone else, but we both have kids and this would have been our get a way. I never got to take a vacation without kids and family. I was really looking forward to it. Even if we just go and see each other for the people that we really are... not just two robots going about our daily routines. Idk, seems foolish to even fancy the thought.
flitzanu Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 If I asked my ex to still go on vacation with me? We had reservations and I took the time off. Now the time is approaching. Maybe I just worry he's going to take someone else, but we both have kids and this would have been our get a way. I never got to take a vacation without kids and family. I was really looking forward to it. Even if we just go and see each other for the people that we really are... not just two robots going about our daily routines. Idk, seems foolish to even fancy the thought. you just said you worry he is taking someone else. do you mean "is it silly to ask my ex to take me on vacation still?" either way, any scenario, its a terrible idea.
Author AlisaMarie Posted June 28, 2011 Author Posted June 28, 2011 you just said you worry he is taking someone else. do you mean "is it silly to ask my ex to take me on vacation still?" either way, any scenario, its a terrible idea. I know, better to post it here than to text it to him I suppose. I am just feeling worse and worse about the breakup instead of feeling better. The first week was a breeze, now I'm falling into that depression phase and it sickens the eff out of me.
flitzanu Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 I know, better to post it here than to text it to him I suppose. I am just feeling worse and worse about the breakup instead of feeling better. The first week was a breeze, now I'm falling into that depression phase and it sickens the eff out of me. absolutely it does, my friend. you're human, sadly its what we deal with
JasonRules Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Ok, let's assume you ask him to go on holiday. Two things will happen: 1. He says "No" and your devastated or disappointed 2. He says "Yes" and you're elated. So let's assume you go on this holiday together and everything works out and you have a nice time, hot sex bla bla bla. Upon returning you will think that things are going to be ok, but what if he just uses you for sex and when you return you never hear from him again? How do you think you'll feel? Dumb? Used?.... It's a lose-lose situation, but if you want to ask him anyway, go ahead.
Author AlisaMarie Posted June 28, 2011 Author Posted June 28, 2011 Ok, let's assume you ask him to go on holiday. Two things will happen: 1. He says "No" and your devastated or disappointed 2. He says "Yes" and you're elated. So let's assume you go on this holiday together and everything works out and you have a nice time, hot sex bla bla bla. Upon returning you will think that things are going to be ok, but what if he just uses you for sex and when you return you never hear from him again? How do you think you'll feel? Dumb? Used?.... It's a lose-lose situation, but if you want to ask him anyway, go ahead. I know Jason. It was a stupid thought. That's why I put it here instead of a text to him. I just can't deal with this anymore.
radiodarcy Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 eh it's normal to have those thoughts. that's why this place is such a great resource to vent and relate to people who are going or have gone through the same thing. also, if i have an urge to send the ex a text i either reach out to someone else or i send it to myself. silly - - but it's still a release
Author AlisaMarie Posted June 28, 2011 Author Posted June 28, 2011 eh it's normal to have those thoughts. that's why this place is such a great resource to vent and relate to people who are going or have gone through the same thing. also, if i have an urge to send the ex a text i either reach out to someone else or i send it to myself. silly - - but it's still a release ha ha I love sending texts to myself. I do love it here. I just hate hearing how everyone is sad and nothing seems to work. I love when people put success stories here the most!
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