cloudbeauty Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 I have been with my boyfriend for about seven years. Eventhough we had our share of ups and downs during those years, we had a good relationship. We have been talking about taking the next step and getting married. And about two months ago he told me he has something he needs to tell me. He came out and told me that he has slept with four women, and flirted with other women online. He siad he is telling me this because he wants to live the rest of his life with me and not anyone else and he wanted to come clean. He siad he was very sorry for what he has done and it wont happen again. Needless to say that I was really shocked and hurt. I couldnt continue wit the relationship because regardless of him confessing and being a changed man I just couldnt trust him. So I broke up with him. I miss him so much and there is even a part of me that wishes he didnt tell me. Any ways I went out on couple of dates with a guy that asked me out previously while I was still with my ex BF. Back then even though I sort of liked him I explained to him I am in a commeted relationship and I am not intersted. we continued being good friends and I went out with him after I broke up with my ex BF. Going out with him made me want to run back to my ex. It showed me that I really had a special relationship with him. Would it be carzy of me to give my ex BF another chance?
Lonesomedove Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 ;)i would have to say trust is a big thing in a relationship. If you want to try and work on it with your ex that is upto you. Make sure you tell him that he has to gain your trust back and make sure he is ready to settle down with one person and not be with other people. Or you can try and just be good friends with him. still having a realtionship but without the commitment and go from there. Many relationships have changed, some can swing and enjoy it but all depends on how confident you are in yourself and your relationship. But if your the jealous type then i would suggest no to that. It really all depends on you and what you can cope with in the relationship. Can you give him a chance to proove himself or will you just be hurt all the time and stress that he is cheating on him. Cause if you take him back you cant always be asking him where he has been or what he has been upto. Yes he has to gain your trust but with boundries where he can have space as well. hope this helps;)
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