just_scott Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 k i'm still breaking the no contact here with my ex girl of 4 yrs that walked out on me a little over a month ago . I first called her yesterday morning to tell her i'd be moving by saturday and to make arrangements to get her things ,she agreed on that i sounded down i guess she asked whats up i told her family members of mine were in acar accident recently and they live so far away ,she said sorry to hear,said her dads health isn't getting better [he's been fighting cancer a while now] i told her to be strong. THIS morning i noticed my phone was completly dead and i was expecting a call from my ex to let me know what day would be good for her to drop by,soo i called her at work asked if she called or picked a day [ told her my phones dead] she said she hasn't called but either wends/thurs would be good i said k that's fine ,she asked about my family and i asked about her dad AND we talked civily and it felt soo good it sounds like the woman i met and fell for is comming through the carring,loving ,compasonate one .I hope it at least stays this way cause we were best friends for so long and you've got to be friends first before you can have a relationship i'm not getting my hopes up of reconcileing that would be a ways down the road if ever. MAYBE us having no contact did what it's suposed to do in this case it gave us a break ,time to think , and reflect and helped us to communicate civily with each other-i've always comforted her with her dads health issues since i've been through it she thanked me for my words to her and even laughed a little during our talk which made me feel great i like maing her smile . I DO have strong feelings for her , and care about her a-lot and just by us talking and how we talked i feel she still has feelings for me I think strongly IF we both just sat down and were open and honest with each other that would go a long way ....
TheHurtProcess Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Either way, I hope it works out for you regardless of whether things work out as friends or not. I'd just hate to see you back here in worse off shape than you were in a few weeks ago.
Author just_scott Posted June 28, 2011 Author Posted June 28, 2011 THANKS for that .i'm definatly going to move slowly here and think before i act and not just listen BUT hear what she says [if anything]
TheHurtProcess Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 THANKS for that .i'm definatly going to move slowly here and think before i act and not just listen BUT hear what she says [if anything] No problem bro. Definitely keep me updated. Good luck!
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