monkeywithagun Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 I had been seeing this guy for about 7 months. Honestly one of the deepest connections I have ever experienced.. everything from our friendship to our physical connection was close to perfect., and it seemed like it wasnt just from my end because we constantly spoke of the subject and he made it clear he had never had such a connection with anyone.I am 22 years old almost 23 and he is 32. He seemed to be very kind hearted and soft spoken just a very very nice sweet guy over all. I guess he wanted our relationship to move a little faster, he gave me a key to his house which I would rarely use and when i did always asked for permission. Everything was almost perfect, or so I thought. This past friday he stopped answering my texts and calls altogether. He didnt give me a reason he has not texted or called at all not even a yes or a no ever since. I have been non stop texting , calling and trying to reach him. I went on saturday to his place to try the key and the lock had been changed. I have no idea what to do, We really have no mutual friends or any way of getting any information on the subject. I have been extremely upset and I feel like I need closure. Please let me hear your opinions.
kiss_andmakeup Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Wow, changing the locks?! That's pretty extreme. Did anything happen leading up to this sudden disappearance? A fight, disagreement, even a little quarrel? If I was in a healthy relationship and this happened, I'd start to assume the worst (was he hurt, in a car accident, etc). However the locks being changed tells you this isn't the case. I really have no advice, that's truly bizarre (and unbelievably sh*tty on his part).
FrostFire Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Did you ever have sex with this guy? It's possible if you haven't after 7 months is way too long for him and that he's not interested in playing your games to get into your pants. But, if you have then disregard everything I have said.
Author monkeywithagun Posted June 28, 2011 Author Posted June 28, 2011 Wow, changing the locks?! That's pretty extreme. Did anything happen leading up to this sudden disappearance? A fight, disagreement, even a little quarrel? If I was in a healthy relationship and this happened, I'd start to assume the worst (was he hurt, in a car accident, etc). However the locks being changed tells you this isn't the case. I really have no advice, that's truly bizarre (and unbelievably sh*tty on his part). Yea, he is a fire fighter so I automatically went insane thinking he had gotten hurt but then when I tried the key I realized that wasn't it. Even now I am almost trying to convince myself that I just didn't turn the key right.. maybe it got stuck? this is driving me nuts its almost like I am in a nightmare.. I never heard of such a thing happening to any one.
Author monkeywithagun Posted June 28, 2011 Author Posted June 28, 2011 Did you ever have sex with this guy? It's possible if you haven't after 7 months is way too long for him and that he's not interested in playing your games to get into your pants. But, if you have then disregard everything I have said. We actually had amazing sex, everything was going fine. really I have no clue what happened or how to find out.
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