Cantcope Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Long story short....2.5 year relationship. He broke up with me 6 weeks ago because we bicker a lot. Limited contact since, sometimes sweet, sometimes horrible. Yesterday, he sends me this: "Another day in misery, another day in pain, another day pretending to be happy in vain, another day, another night, waking up from nightmares in fright, what the **** happened to us, My heart was hit by a ****ing bus, will this feeling ever end? Will you ever be my friend? Will we ever work it out, in my car when I can shout, is when I can release my strife, for a second, now back to faux life." What is he doing? He still hasn't said one thing about getting back together. Get's furious if he hears that I'm meeting other guys. Please....what are these mixed signals???
Jdw_Icequeen Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Well obvioulsy he misses you and is upset. Alot of dumpers go through the confused stage. After breaking up they wonder did I do the right thing? I would say for the most part they are human aswell and are also feelings ome kind of hurt and pain over it. Does it mean they want you back? No.. I wouldn't put up with that bs at all if I were you.. Tell him strait.." Look you broke up with me and I am not going to do the run around with you". If you want to talk about getting back together or try to work things out thats one thing. If not then don't send me this mixed message crap. You deserve better then that, at this point all its going to create is drama. He needs to get his **** together or move on. Dragging you through the mud with mixed signals is immature and not going to help the situation.
Author Cantcope Posted June 28, 2011 Author Posted June 28, 2011 Thanks! I've told him that. I gave him the old "this is your final chance. If you want back, say so, if not, fine, but time to commit 100% either way". His response was to tell me that I've been really mean and hateful through the breakup and why would he want to work things out when I haven't changed a bit. I know it's time to move on, but it really does piss me off that he sends mixed signals, and STILL didn't just say "No b*tch....piss off".
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