buggy Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Hello all, I met this guy, and we hit it off well. He was living in another town, but very soon we started talking to each other all the time on phone. We even made a few trips to each others town to spend time with each other. In a matter of a month or two he asked if we could be together. I just felt like a lot was happening in a very short time and I wanted it a little slow so I told him that I was not ready just then and that I needed some time. But we continued to keep in touch and talk, although the frequency had gone down. Soon he was to move to my town and I was excited about the possibility of spending more time together. He moved in to my town within two months since he had proposed to me, and by then I had made up my mind to be with him. And one of the days we met, I told him that I wanted us to be together, and I was surprised to hear that he had moved on and for then he just wanted us to be friends. So I agreed and went along with this, kept in touch now and then. Met him now and then. After a month or so of this, I told him again that I really liked him and wanted to be with him. He again told me that he had a lot going on and he couldn't do this now and that we should be just friends. So again we continued to stay in touch and it was getting harder and harder to get him to call me and meet me, he always seemed to be busy. But I din't give up with my occasional call-in's as I really liked him. I waited another 3 months before which I met him, sat him down and poured my heart out to him. But he said he had changed and that he wanted different things and I should find someone who was more similar to me. I was really heart-broken. Because as I saw it, we hadn't changed so much to want different things entirely because to start off we did connect really well and at many levels. So I did suspect that he likes someone else now. There was nothing I could do and I left. It's been 2 months since I have gotten in touch with him and nor has he. But I really really like him and miss him a lot and want him to give this a second chance. Any advice or ideas of how I can go about this?
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