fatboybjj Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Well guys this is my first post so just bare with me please. Well its been 2 years since I've been in any kind of relationship and really haven't been looking for someone, really just waiting for someone to come into my life. Well it happened, yesterday while I was at work she walked in, no lights came down from heaven, no birds nor harps playing sweet music. Just a girl walks into the restaurant wearing a Gold's Gym tank top and yoga pants. Apparently none of the other guys working thought she was cute and we weren't busy at all so I went ahead and made her, her order and had some small talk while I made her a burrito. I made her laugh a few times (which isn't that hard for me cause I have been a stand up comedian for the last 3 years) I also told her how much I like the classes they offer at Gold's and we talked about working out and nutrition. She mentioned that she wanted to try out Mixed Martial Arts. This just keeps getting better for me cause I just happen to train a t a gym in town. I told her that I trained in town and if she wanted I could get her a few free training sessions with my coaches. (That would cost me a few floor moppings and mit holding for some of my teammates but it would be worth it for me I think) I handed her my business card where she saw on the card that I was a comedian (I found out the hard way not to tell people right off the bat that I'm a comedian cause they put you in a category of people not to take seriously or something.) She took her burrito and left. I want to ask her out and I know which gym she works at but I don't know how to go about asking her out or whatever. If you guys have any advice please help a brother out. Thanks
thatone Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 sounds like you did everything right, don't know what you want us to help with? she'll call, or not. she'll come back to where you work and give you a shot to ask her out, or not.
welikeincrowds Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Well since you didn't get her number (right?) your only choices are to a) wait, or b) pull a Seinfeld maneuver and "happen to bump into her" (right?). The thing about girls is that they don't call. It's a rare exception when they do. So next time, frame it in a way that you get her number instead. Another thing is that you want to make sure this is a "I'm asking you out romantically" thing, and not a "you're hot so I'm going to give you free stuff" thing. You're not networking, looking for a gym buddy, etc. -- you're trying to date. So, rather than offer her something, you might have just used that coincidence as a "something in common" that gets you to get her phone number. Regular old coffee dates are just fine for a first date, too. Maybe working out together and getting dinner after could be a second date. I'd say you should just let this one go, and if you run into her again (maybe at the gym), this time, ask her out straight up, the old fashioned way.
PinkInTheLimo Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Just wait for her to call. If she is a serious girl who does not play games, she will call you to set a date for the lessons you offered. And then you can take it from there. Don't go to the gym hoping to meet her, you might give the impression to be a bit of a stalker.
TheLawmaker Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Just wait for her to call. If she is a serious girl who does not play games, she will call you to set a date for the lessons you offered. And then you can take it from there. Don't go to the gym hoping to meet her, you might give the impression to be a bit of a stalker. I agree with this. But you also might be putting her on a pedestal. From your description, you're already "in love" with her, before you even went on a date with her...this is a recipe for trouble.
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