Dims85 Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 It's almost been 60 days since my ex and I met up for her to tell me she misses me and doesn't want to lose me from her life. Of course she was able to do this all while still not wanting the RS back and only wanting friends. Now come to today I am wondering what the hell? Why if you wanted to be friends or not lose me why did you disappear right after we met up?? Im glad now she never called it Just goes to show you that actions speak louder than words.
Rinas Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 And back to NC! Sometimes you just cannot be friends with exes. Asking to be friends is reopening the wounds. Hang in there, I'm sure you're doing much better after 60 days nc!
Mr. Savage Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 God I'm on the first week of my 2nd attempt of NC. 60 days seems like a lifetime at this point. LOL.
batsheba Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 mr savage you can do it!!! time will come and you will not even count the days! i am on 90 days and counting!
AlisaMarie Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 I am only on day 5. After our last break up I ALMOST made a month, but sadly, we got back together (MISTAKE!) Time goes slow, and sometimes I wonder if counting the days is just making me crazy. 60 days is something to be proud of. When you don't care about your ex anymore, you will be ok with being friends. Until then, focus on you and your own well being. ACTIONS speak MUCH louder than words! You got that right for suresies! Keep up the NC and don't reward yourself with a stupid text or call to the ex! (I do that when I quit smoking... I will go a week, the reward myself with a cig because I did so well! Then I am a full blown smoker again! Love is just as addictive as any ol' drug!)
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