duhduhduhdan Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 So basically, last night I was at a party and I finally got my first kiss (I'm 16 btw) I was so happy that i'd finally done it. And then a few hours ago I was told she did it because she felt sorry for me. My friend told her that i'd never kissed a girl before, and then she told him that she would kiss me because she felt sorry for me. It made me feel really ****ty and I only really posted this because I needed to vent!
carhill Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 OTOH, you received some clear insight into the minds of young women. You'll kiss many more in your life and, if this is the worst it turns out, you will have gotten off lucky. OK, now you've been kissed. Go find some young ladies whom you don't feel sorry for and express yourself. Good luck
rafallus Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 Don't believe everything you hear, that goes quadruple as far as other teenagers are concerned.
Trimmer Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 Also, don't think of your 'first kiss' as being the most important thing in your life. In fact, think of it like getting the first scratch on a new car - now you can move forward without worrying about the 'first one.' Don't get hung up in the last kiss... There will be much more important kisses to come. And finally, consider this: any girl who hears about someone who has never been kissed would probably just blow it off and say "so what?" Even if that was the setup, and no matter what someone else "said that she said" about it, ask yourself: This girl could have just ignored you. Why did she end up kissing you? Because she wanted to. Enjoy it and don't over-analyze it.
alexlakeman Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 (edited) DON'T worry about it.. at least you got to kiss her... Next tell her you haven't had any heavy petting or sex.. hopefully she'll feel bad and give it to you.. Use it to your advantage, lol.. DON'T believe everything you hear... I would continue talking to her; invite her to the movies or another dance.. feeling "sorry" or whatever as long as she's coming along who cares... BESIDES, you will learn that WOMEN can be mean at times and hurt try to hurt you with the simplest things, such as those words you heard from another person.. Even as an adult, it will continue through life, you just have to build a thick skin.. Whatever moves you did on her to kiss her, repeat it a number of times on different girls... Let them all feel bad for you, but you'll get to kiss a bunch of them and your friends? Well, they might not, lol Make sure and tell your dad, if around, about it.. I would be veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy proud of my son if he comes home and tells me that :) :) ... Good luck Edited June 27, 2011 by alexlakeman
spiderowl Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 It's a shame if someone said that but one good thing about it is that she kissed you. Believe me, there are plenty of guys I would not want to kiss out of sympathy or anything else because they repulse me. She was obviously not repulsed and wanted to make you feel good. I think you have more appeal to women than you think. Do you realise how often we end up evading romantic advances because we are not attracted to the guy? Whatever her supposed motives, she came to you and kissed you. Maybe you should start taking the initiative with women because they obviously don't find you off-putting
mhm407 Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 Spiderowl said it very well! I don't see this as such a bad thing. I couldn't kiss someone I wasn't attracted to, not now and not as a teenager! Maybe there was more behind the kiss than just sympathy. If you like the girl, pursue her and don't pay attention to what people say--who knows how much truth there is to it, if any.
thatone Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 figure out how to get sympathy blow jobs and you'll have conquered the world.
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