RN2011 Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 Here is my original thread and story. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t282827/ Update....I broke NC and we talked. We ended up meeting up two nights ago and I was able to tell him how I felt about the relationship. He continues to tell me that he is still in love with me, loves me, and that he isn't sure what the future holds, but right now we need to go our seperate ways for now and take some time. Every time we say goodbye, we both end it with "goodbye for now." I love him so much and want him back. Need advice.... I realize that the majority of people on this site are the dumpees, but can the dumpers put their two cents in?!! What does NC mean to the dumper? What are they thinking?
wilsonx Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 what you need to learn is its no longer about the dumper.. WHO CARES WHAT THEY THINK... IT DOES NOT MATTER ANYMORE... ITS ABOUT YOU... NC is meant for YOU not the dumper. Its to allow you to start healing and removing your codependency of them from your life.
gerib38 Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 I think for the dumper its just needing space, if they ask for NC, need time to think etc...and its easy to say its all about you.. but i know if he had told me i need space to sort out what i want how i feel etc... it would have made it easier for me to implement NC .. not just saying its over and expect u to not be a little freaked out...
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