just_scott Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 K i just broke a month long no contact . BRIEF history me and my ex knew each other 2 yrs before we started datting ,we datted for 4 yrs it was a good relationship [we both admit] we never raised our voices to each other , had some small issues BUT nothing major and they got put to rest,A little over a month ago she just walked out on me ,no reason/explination. we spoke briefly right after ,i still never got any reason SO i saw it was useless to ask.went no contact a month ago STRICT no contact..NOW i believe she is either seeing or datting another guy . I am moving and have been trying to make arrangements with her to collect her things [i just can't mail them, or have a friend take them to her ,or leave them at her door ] she needs to physically go through things cd's.books,movies,kitchen items etc . SOO this morning i called her at work , i said hi i know you're at work as am i [i am not though ] said i need for you to give me a time and day to collect your things before i leave .she said o.k.,she asked why i sounded strange ,i told her i had a big family emergency [an accident involving my cousin and grand ma ]she said she was sorry to hear that,she said her dad is still ill [he's got cancer ] i said i hope he's doing better . SO i ent right back to her collecting her things, and she said i can hear you're going through a lot right now your family stuff,moving,working etc . she said she couldn't think of a date/time at the moment [her dads on her mind AND now me with my family issues] SO she said she would get back to me later on ,i said that's fine thanks. ORIGINALLY when i knew i was moving she asked me [nicely ] if i would mind taking everything to my new place and she would come their to collect them , i said no problem ,BUT now after i'm seeing the little changes she made towards the end and even some lies AND possably seeing or datting someone i don't even want her knowing where i'll be living .. SOO i think the call went o.k it was short and sweet and to a point I do still feel greatly for her , i still do love her in ways and do miss her terrably [we did have 6 yrs of good fun times] DOES she hav a case of g.i.g.s. OR is she in a rebound i don't fully know WOULD i reconsile with her as hard as it is to admit to myself i don't see that happening WE probably can't even be friends being we still have some sort of feelings towards each other [ i believe she has feelings towards me as slight as they may be ] I think her collecting her things will really finalize everything anif we talk we talk IF not then we don't......
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