angel_eyes2 Posted April 20, 2004 Posted April 20, 2004 Whenever I spend the night at my boyfriend’s place, he always complains about me wearing clothes. He thinks when I am over at his place I should walk around naked for him. He says it gives him easier access. He also requests that I sleep naked with him…again for the easier access part. And of course, he wants us to shower together. He has even asked to take pictures of me naked. I want to do all this for him, but sometimes I get shy. Are his requests normal? He’s my first boyfriend. Do you gals do this for your guys?
Arabess Posted April 20, 2004 Posted April 20, 2004 I wouldn't walk around naked for ANYONE nor have them take my picture unless it is something I personally wanted to do. If you aren't comfortable with his requests, tell him NO! Sexual compatibility is important in any relationship. If his version doesn't line up with yours....you don't have to comply. He may not be the right guy for you. I personally think he is taking advantage of you.
HokeyReligions Posted April 20, 2004 Posted April 20, 2004 Ditto Arabess. The whole "easier access" sounds fishy to me and rather demeaning. Don't do anything that you are not comfortable with. He wants pictures of you naked --how old are you? How many people do you want to see those pictures? He may share them with his friends, he may put them on the Internet. He may not, but why take a chance.
MarKus Posted April 20, 2004 Posted April 20, 2004 If you are not comfortable with it.....dont do it. He should respect your decision....and if he dosn't, he's an idiot
joseph Posted April 21, 2004 Posted April 21, 2004 What does he think your are? some sort of object that is there for his pleasure/convenience...maybe let him know that you are a human being..and that you do have feelings... the whole easy access might be intended as a joke..but if he keeps on it..slap him upside the head
Author angel_eyes2 Posted April 21, 2004 Author Posted April 21, 2004 Thanks everyone. You made me feel better and now I have a clearer idea of what I should do. By the way, we're both adults. Thanks again!
Arabess Posted April 21, 2004 Posted April 21, 2004 Age really isn't the issue as much as you saying this is your 'first' boyfriend. His suggestions may just be based on his libido...but there is more to a relationship than just him feeling happy sexually. Your feelings count too. Please keep us posted on how you are doing and what you decide.
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