turnera Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 If you really want to help her, get her this book and hand it to her. Sooner or later (probably later, in the hospital), she may read it: Why Does He Do That? Inside The Minds Of Angry And Controlling Men, by Bancroft. Best book ever written on what she's going through.
Kamille Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 If I were this girl's friend, I would point out that this relationship is beyond dysfunctional and that, as such, she doesn't stand to lose much by calling his bluff. I'd tell him I'm keeping Facebook and he's free to leave if that is a dealbreaker for him.
bigmomma1974 Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 Damn this sounds like stuff my kids do to each other. The delete this do that dont do this. Immature relaionship for sure. They both cheated on each other and thats that. This dude sounds like a control freak and i would tell him to hit the road. However she seems to enjoy being controled by him if she wants to marry him. Have you ever asked your friend if this guy has been pyschical abusive or are there any signs, Sometimes with mental abuse and controlling issues comes physical abuse as well. This girl needs to break free from her boyfrieds control and move forward.
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