sigurpol Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 Sometimes I wonder why I do this to myself, haha. I'm sort of writing this to put things in perspective. Back about 5 years ago, my long term girlfriend and I split ways. It sucked, and it always sort of bugged me. As time went on, I forgot about it. The first time I practiced NC. Eventually, I took her off my friends list (OooOoOoo) just to really move away from that nonsense. About a year later, she adds me back, I accept.. and nothing is said. I know that sort of behavior is common online, so I just brushed it off. Granted, I was curious, but whatever. During my birthday month, she wished me a happy birthday (first time we've said anything to each other in five or so years), and I asked how she was. Did that whole thing and that was it. The other day, I get an invite from her (not personally per say. Online, to everyone. But I got an email about it) to an outing next month. So I'll wonder from time to time, but again.. whatever. I finally do something, and suggest that we get together and catch up sometime because it's been a while. She lives in my town now, so it's doable. She responds that we should do that with a "group of people" sometime. The group thing threw me off... and I know that the opportunity to catch up could be done at this event thing she invited me to.. but it's at her parents house that is two hours away from me. In all honestly, I'd like to catch up since it's been so long. What do I want out of it? I really don't know since it's so early to really say anything. I replied back saying that's a good idea and if there were any places she had in mind? But her response was a little off putting, I've seen her online in the past two days, but haven't gotten a response. I'm not trying to hold on to something here, just really curious. My reaction right now is that she's just being "nice" by replying at all and will phase herself out from having to catch up.
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