A Fair Judgement Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 Hello, i'm new here. First of all, i'm 18 yo and i never had a girlfriend and i dated only 2 girls so far, which means i barely know anything about dating. So here is my situation: On friday i met a really beautiful girl. She's a bit younger than me (16) but very smart. We met on a friend's party and we were both a bit drunk, so after we talked for a few hours we started kissing. We exchanged numbers and she said she hopes i'll call her. Next day she also added me on facebook. Anyway, we haven't talked on facebook yet as i was very busy and wasn't on facebook. Anyway, i called her today, my intention was to ask her on date. However, she was at her friends house. I asked her if she was busy but she said no. I just talked with her for a minute and said i called to check how she is... i didn't want to talk for longer as it was obvious that she didn't had time. I don't know what to do from now on... should i talk with her on facebook at first, or should i call her again another day and ask her out? I think she does like me... she liked a photo of me on facebook today after that phone call. Anyway, i'm really nervous what to do from now on, as i was never in situation like this before... I'm going out on large event tomorrow with 2 friends of mine and they both said i should ask her to come along... but personaly, i think it would be better to ask her on a date first, as it might look that i'm interested into her just as a friend if she comes with us tomorrow... what do you guys think? Any advice will be appreciated.
Dust Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 Asking her out in person after the kissing probably would have been best. When you called you should have just asked her out, kind of lame to just say you were calling to say hi and then hang up. Just call her and ask her out. You’ve already kissed her so I don’t know what you are so scared of.
Author A Fair Judgement Posted June 26, 2011 Author Posted June 26, 2011 Asking her out in person after the kissing probably would have been best. When you called you should have just asked her out, kind of lame to just say you were calling to say hi and then hang up. Just call her and ask her out. You’ve already kissed her so I don’t know what you are so scared of. I don't know, i didn't want to look too desperate. I'll probably call her tomorrow.
neghitzbrah Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 i didn't want to look too desperate i didn't want to talk for longer as it was obvious that she didn't had time. I think she does like me You are putting too much emphasis on how she feels. It's as if you are afraid to do something unless you know you won't be rejected. It sounds like you are afraid of rejection. Let me tell you something. You need to take risks and do what you want to do when you feel it's right. Try it out. It will be less pressure on you and make you more comfortable. Dating is a mutual process... not a "I have to impress her and show her I'm good enough for her."
flirtatwork Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 hi im in a similar situation but the girl Im talking too is 2 years older then me... I was wondering what would you do with her on a date..? What would you ask her to do with you.?? She doesn't even drink coffe lol.. I dont have a car or license and I hate the fact that she has a car and licence, feel so stupid to ask her out and she would have to drive..... what should I do?
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