JimmyR Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 (edited) So my girlfriend and I are both sixteen, I may be young but I will appreciate any help. We've been going out for a little of 6 months and were good friends for a while before that. The longer we've been together the closer we've drawn together. I've never felt this way for a girl and a little over a month ago we started saying I love you, and I completely mean it. But recently, it kinda seems like she's distancing herself, but I need help to see if I'm reading signs right. So we normally talk at least once every single day, if were both on facebook we'll either talk on the phone or video chat depending on the situation. So I had a long date with her last sunday and we both had an amazing time like we always do when we're together and I felt even closer to her then before. We talked briefly the next day and she told me how great of a time she had with me. After that I hadn't heard from her for a while. We both have different week schedules this summer and I assumed that they were conflicting. So when I ended up catching her online yesterday. She showed no signs that she missed talking to me and had something she had to do and left briefly, though she told me she would call later that night (Her cell phone is broken and her family phone is usually busy with her dad so she just calls me) She ended up calling this morning and we talked for 45 minutes or so, but she didn't seem as close as she normally does, and she didn't say I love you either of these two chats. Later today I see one of my wall posts to her deleted on her facebook. I can't help to feel like she backing away, but I also can't see what would of triggered that. Especially right after another amazing date that she enjoyed and seemed very into me like usual. Any opinion if I am over reacting and she really is just busy or if she actually is distancing her self from me? And if so, and tips to keep her attracted or draw her back? Edited June 26, 2011 by JimmyR
smudge21 Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 Oh to be sixteen again... with what I know now! Just speak to her, in person. Over thinking it will only eat away at you and make you think the worse. Have a conversation, away from Facebook...
Author JimmyR Posted June 26, 2011 Author Posted June 26, 2011 Oh trust me, I hate talking on facebook. I would love to see and talk to her in person everyday, if I could. But we are both running tight schedules. I try to use skype, which while doesn't compare to being in person, is a lot better than text.
smudge21 Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 Arrange to meet her at some time. Then talk. Simple... maybe.
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