amallurs Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 In May, my friend presented me to this guy in college. He claims was looking for a relationship & that's he's on all these dating sites looking for someone. We messed around twice but never had sex, & after that when we left home for the summer. His mom died a week after we met, so he talked to me about it & he let everything out, & we just talk about each other 7 stuff. A month after we met, on his facebook wall a, this 43 year ld divorced woman with 2 grown kids, wrote about the great nght that they shared at the hotel & how exhausted she was. Obviously, they had sex. He never took down her comment which only means that he doesn't give a damn about me seeing that but his lil guys friends so they can see his cougar conquest. After a guy friend of mine started hitting up my facebook page and askng me out on dates, now, he's always on my wall commenting on how pretty I look and this and that. He's always on my page now and commenting on every status. He's also anxious for me to go back for summer classes cuz he's pretty confident that we will hang out. He's asked me to lunch, dinner or anythign that I want to do. I feel so hurt, cuz there I am like an idiot talking to him and helping him cope with his mom's passing and yeah i know that we arent dating, just knowing each other, and then he does this crap. I feel betrayed. and he does have a history of cheating on his 2 exes. I've cut down on the talking to him, barely do, he's the one that always initiates and I reply back with one word. He's even noticed it because he claims that our conversations are quick and short. I really don't care, he killed the hope I had towards him. Should I be mad and never talk to him ever again? I already don't wanna see him as it is, I can't cuz I get repulsed. and why is he now all of a sudden after me and desperately talking to me?
phineas Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 when it come to me & women, we are either in an exclusive relationship or I am free to do what I want with who I want.
Lady vs Panda Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 I wonder how grossly unclassy the 40 year old has to be to make it obvious on some college kid's Facebook wall that she was banging him all night until she was exhausted. OP, technically the guy is not 100% in the wrong. You had no exclusivity, are not officially dating. Also, many people can expect a get out of jail free card for crazy behavior right after their mom dies, that's a big deal. However, you already know that he is a cheater and has cheated on at least two exes. You don't live nearby, you already don't trust him. You feel repulsed by him right now, you say you don't want to see. You know he's the kind of guy who's going to go, "Well, technically..." whenever he gets busted. Why bother with all of this? Seems like the obvious thing to do is just shut him down and move along.
alexlakeman Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 I don't know that an adult would actually post that on FB.. You are sure that he didn't have a friend post that to look bad -azz?
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