TheStylist Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 Hi guys, I'm really confuse with this guy I've been dating for a month now. I want to know his real intentions. At first, it seemed like we don't really connect and we're the exact opposite. But still we keep on seeing each other 2-3 times a week and it's always him who find ways to see me. We don't really text or call each other a lot but whenever we see each other, we usually go to resto bars, or just driving anywhere. Thing is, when I don't drink, I find it hard to communicate with him because he is so different from me. Now, I have to go back to my state which is 1hr and 30mins by air from his state. He keeps saying he will visit me after he will arrange his schedules at work. The next day when I got home, a girl called me and told me to back off because she is the girlfriend. Now, he had mentioned this girl to me several times. His ex-gf. But of course, the girl has different story. Anyhow, I found out that the girl is really forcing herself with the guy but the girl still goes to his place and sleep there. I know, I know. But guess what, he's been calling and texting me that he is too tired and suffocated already with this girl, that no matter how much he's been begging her to go away and accept the fact that they're over, the more the girl won't let go. He asked help from me on how to talk to this girl without being so rude because the girl won't listen to him and she would just laugh everytime he asked her to go home and they're over. He keeps telling me he really wants to see me and visits me here. Now, I'm wondering if he really wants to see me or he just want to escape from this girl? By the way, he's been asking me if what's my plan about 'us' when I'm not even sure if there is really 'us' especially now that there is this girl. He doesn't really tell me anything much and I don't ask much too since I don't tell or share much about myself as well. Like I don't text if he doesn't text first. Today, he asked me how come it seems that I don't care about him nor bothered with everything that's going on with him and asking me if I even miss him coz I never texted him the whole day yesterday. It is always him who texts first. Anyway, I'm just protecting myself here. I do want him and I want to have a serious relationship with him. It's just that I'm too scared and confused of what he really thinks about us. Does he really wants me "seriously" or just using me to move on or escape from this pathetic girl? Please help.
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