usabup Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 Does anyone else suffer from this? Its 3 months since my ex left me because I hurt her. I keep getting these annoying paranoia spells. For example... I keep thinking she is gonna run into one of my friends in a bar and sleep with them. Or she is gonna run into people that know me and they are gonna tell her I'm a loser and she can do better. Or when she runs into me every now and then, she thinks to herself "ewwwww, what the hell was I thinking going out with him!" Or that she is fine with the break up, has a new man and dosnt even think of me ever. I know that I shouldn't ever focus on her and what she does/thinks. But as you all know, you can't help these thoughts from popping into my head.
Pikachu Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 I was the same way after my exe left me and sometimes still have those feelings. Ill give ya the advice that my mom told me. One day your gonna run into your exe, but it wont be when you expect it to. It'll be when you stopped worrying about it and didnt see it coming at all. My advice is for you to just understand we all go through the paranoia and I really just feel that time is the only thing that helps.
ShatteredDreams Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 My paranoia came true. She promised me a lot that she would never leave me for anyone else and that she really loved me. But when she finally left me, something told me she did leave me for someone else...one of my close friends. She told me there was noone else. She promised me that even while she said she hated me. The part that makes me the most sad, she was the only person I was ever able to love and share everything with, when I was with her I could not even look at another girl. Also, her and my friend hooked up while I was in the hospital recovering from a suicide attempt.
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