lazereye88 Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 So there is this girl and I we flirt a lot. We tickle, playfully punch each other, when we sit across the table we kick each others legs playfully, and what not. So about a month ago when she came out for my birthday, I got drunk, so I took her hand and locked it in mine and I was hitting on her quite a bit. So since that lot has time has gone buy and flirting just keeps increasing. So the other day I had a few drinks and had less control on my self and she called me. When she called it totally skipped my mind that I was interested in her and started talking about how I ran into my ex and how it was awkward, and what not. She responds saying than "y don't you get back with her?" so I say" it just won't work". So we were hanging out yesterday with 2 other friends, and we were telling her how she missed out on a party last week, and she asked who all were there, and we told her. ANd the girl to guy ratio was screwed up. So she was saying if I came all those guys would hit on me. SO we said how each guy won't hit on her because he is shy, or relationship and what not. Than she looks at me says " Well we kno how horny he gets when he is drunk". So after that we all got on the subway and I started playfully staring at her, and she starts staring back at me, and starts to licks her lips, so I reciprocate it. Than she winks at me and I wink back at her, then moves her eye brows up and down and I do it back to her and than she bits her lips and I do it back to her and she cracks up. So afterward we all go for a smoke and she makes a statement again about me being horny. My friend thinks she was telling me to back off with the horny statement, but it is like month later. Not sure if she likes me or not. She is very reserved when it comes to her personal matters and none of my other friends know a lot about her, because she is very reserved. But occasionally she opens up to me, and other times she more reserved than anyone.
mo mo Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 Do you need help finding your sack? Because that is exactly what this sounds like to me. Where did you leave it last time you used it/saw it?
refurb Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 From where I'm standing, she's very into you and NOT telling you to back off. In fact I can't see a single thing she's done where she was signaling to back off. It's always easier to see these things from the outside, but dam man, MAKE A MOVE. RF
mo mo Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 From where I'm standing, she's very into you and NOT telling you to back off. In fact I can't see a single thing she's done where she was signaling to back off. It's always easier to see these things from the outside, but dam man, MAKE A MOVE. RF He needs help finding his sack. Should we split up so we cover more ground? It'll turn up eventually
LeadingEdgeLea Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 I think your friend is crazy. Seems like she's waiting on you to make some kind of move. Since she's reserved she probably won't. So try something, not too strong and see how she reacts.
Eddie Edirol Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 Shes definitely waiting for you to make a move. What the hell are you waiting for?
mo mo Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 Shes definitely waiting for you to make a move. What the hell are you waiting for? Hey listen, it's not cool to make fun of people who are at a disadvantage. The man is missing his sack and you want to tell him to make a move? that's just not cool
Author lazereye88 Posted June 27, 2011 Author Posted June 27, 2011 K I know this sounds like a no-brainer. But I got to be absolutely sure because I am also her boss. The reason I thought she was telling me to back off is the day after I got drunk and was hitting on her, we were supposed to party together but she canceled on me, saying she had food poisoning. my friends talked to her and she sounded sad, that day so she probably just excused her self, becuz of other stuff she is dealing. Few weeks ago we went an amusment park and I was joking around saying a pic we took looks like I am garbing her ass, and she said "no the pic looks like 2 friends hanging out". Than later when were flirting sexually I told her "If I make you uncomfortable stop me" and she said "You r joking like that as friend ryt?" and I did not give her a staright answer I said "am I?" She is eastern european and very flirty. So I am not sure if she is just a flirt.
SuperElan Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 Ok Mo Mo, we get the sack joke. Look dude, you gotta think of it like this (even if it doesn't seem so). If a girl likes you, and you like her, she wants you to kiss her as much as you want to kiss her. Just find a chill spot where it's just the two of you, take a deep breath, turn towards her and try to makeout with her (don't eat her face first time na mean?). If you're even that unsure of her response, you can kiss her on the cheek but stay very very close. If she doesn't shake left and hit you with the counter punch, kiss her again but this time on the mouth. But again tho, realize, she wants you to kiss her as much as you want to kiss her. That should alleviate your fear. Also where is your sack?
Author lazereye88 Posted June 27, 2011 Author Posted June 27, 2011 Lol guys I get the point I have to find my sack. But since I am her boss as well in a not for profit organization. I have to absolutely sure before I make any move, to avoid any complications. Also do guys have any idea as to why she would say you have to get back with my ex?
SuperElan Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 You're her boss? 1) Women say **** like that to test you. If you answered "you're right, I love her" then this chick would backoff. If you said "my ex is a heinous bitch, I need someone who's nice and treats me well" then she'd stay the course. 2) YOU'RE HER BOSS??? DUDE, don't **** where you eat. There's a lot of girls out there, unless this girl is Megan ****ing Fox, then go find someone else. This sounds like a disaster waiting to happen.
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