waterbaloon Posted April 20, 2004 Posted April 20, 2004 i think i have a problem. every once in a while (mostly when i'm with my girlfriend) i can help to remember my first girl. we dated for about 2 years before we broke up. whats going on? a little help please
Becks84 Posted April 20, 2004 Posted April 20, 2004 I for one believe what you are experiencing is normal, as long as it is not a constant thing and is eating away at you inside, to where you feel you need to do something about it. What do you think about when you are thinking about your ex? Do you miss her, still have feelings? It's what you are thinking about that is the key here, not the fact that an ex is popping in your head. You were with her for a long time, and you cant just erase her from your memory. I am very happy in my current relationship of 2 years, and still have exs pop into my head from time to time. Memories, or things that remind me of them. It's innocent and I dont ever want to act on it. I dont even speak to any of my exs. I wouldnt beat yourself up over it...depending on what it is you are thinking about.
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