angel_tenniser Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 my boyfriend asked for mine after a picnic date, is he strange or cool? he said he will not wear them so just to be close with me after i go home. Link to post Share on other sites
Ginger Beer Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Are they clean? Link to post Share on other sites
stepka Posted June 25, 2011 Share Posted June 25, 2011 Are they clean? What would be the point then? Link to post Share on other sites
sm1tten Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 my boyfriend asked for mine after a picnic date, is he strange or cool? he said he will not wear them so just to be close with me after i go home. The only time I've ever given my panties to a boyfriend was after he admitted that he wanted to wear them. But, I hear that some guys like a little scratch n sniff aspect to their wanking, so, probably not that weird. Link to post Share on other sites
Lady vs Panda Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 I have left my underwear with men I was dating before. Best to step out of it slowly right in front of them, and then tuck it into their briefcase/laptop bag/whatever with a kiss. Link to post Share on other sites
Ginger Beer Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 I have left my underwear with men I was dating before. Best to step out of it slowly right in front of them, and then tuck it into their briefcase/laptop bag/whatever with a kiss. Is this a serious reply? If so, that's really sexy. Link to post Share on other sites
Lady vs Panda Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 Is this a serious reply? If so, that's really sexy. Sure. Although I would do it with some discretion, not out in the middle of a park in broad daylight, or anything. Link to post Share on other sites
Lady vs Panda Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 Also, I would not do it if I didn't really like him or if we weren't already hot and heavy. If it was someone I was not sleeping with yet, didn't know very well, wasn't sure if I liked him much...no, I would probably not do that. Link to post Share on other sites
refurb Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 This is one of those unspoken fetishes that a lot of guys have. It's odd enough that most guys won't admit to it, but it's quite common. RF Link to post Share on other sites
stepka Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 I have left my underwear with men I was dating before. Best to step out of it slowly right in front of them, and then tuck it into their briefcase/laptop bag/whatever with a kiss. If things work out with my current guy I'm working on, then I know what to give him for his b-day. Link to post Share on other sites
Trimmer Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 Guys, remember that the OP is fifteen here - her boyfriend won't have a briefcase to put them in... Angel - you've heard some of the adult perspectives on this; clearly it's not unheard of. But you'll have to decide and interpret where your boyfriend is coming from in your particuar situation - we can't guess that for sure. The thing that I think of is: is there any chance that your underwear would become a "trophy" that he might ever share or display to brag in front of the boys? Proof that he "did you", maybe? This is kind of like "sexting" - you may trust him now, but once it's out there, you can't take it back... Link to post Share on other sites
Ginger Beer Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 This is one of those unspoken fetishes that a lot of guys have. It's odd enough that most guys won't admit to it, but it's quite common. RF To be honest I've never thought about it before but this thread has made me realise it's actually nice. If a girl I was really into did what LvP suggested I think I'd explode. Link to post Share on other sites
alexlakeman Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 Guys, remember that the OP is fifteen here - . Yikes.. In that case, OP, you shouldn't be giving him any underwear. As far as you know he'll be using and showing it off as a trophy... Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 my boyfriend asked for mine after a picnic date, is he strange or cool? he said he will not wear them so just to be close with me after i go home. Basically he's telling you, " I want to sniff your underwear later on and spank off at the same time!" Link to post Share on other sites
Lady vs Panda Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 Guys, remember that the OP is fifteen here - her boyfriend won't have a briefcase to put them in... . Ooookay, I did not know that. OP, keep your panties on! Look, it's a little harmless fun with adults. But teenage boys are a whole different thing, even the good ones are sometimes motivated in mysterious ways by peer pressure and porn and ******* friends. Notice that the two posters who have told you he might want a trophy to show his friends are both men who used to be teenage boys, something to think about. If things work out with my current guy I'm working on, then I know what to give him for his b-day. It's a good start, but I would get him a little something else too. To be honest I've never thought about it before but this thread has made me realise it's actually nice. If a girl I was really into did what LvP suggested I think I'd explode. If you're really a ginger I bet you'd turn the most amazing shades of red. It would be worth doing for that alone. Link to post Share on other sites
Trimmer Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 ...teenage boys are a whole different thing, even the good ones are sometimes motivated in mysterious ways by peer pressure and porn and ******* friends. Notice that the two posters who have told you he might want a trophy to show his friends are both men who used to be teenage boys, something to think about. Heh heh, yeah. The kid I was in high school would have loved to have been in that position, but.... All I'll admit to for sure is that I've seen 16 Candles. Link to post Share on other sites
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 26, 2011 Author Share Posted June 26, 2011 Are they clean? i never check them so not sure. The only time I've ever given my panties to a boyfriend was after he admitted that he wanted to wear them. But, I hear that some guys like a little scratch n sniff aspect to their wanking, so, probably not that weird. lol hotness I have left my underwear with men I was dating before. Best to step out of it slowly right in front of them, and then tuck it into their briefcase/laptop bag/whatever with a kiss. cool sounds fun Sure. Although I would do it with some discretion, not out in the middle of a park in broad daylight, or anything. we makeout on a towel in the park because our picnic is there and nobody comes to our spot ;) This is one of those unspoken fetishes that a lot of guys have. It's odd enough that most guys won't admit to it, but it's quite common. RF that would be awkward if their mom saw it :laugh::laugh::laugh: Guys, remember that the OP is fifteen here - her boyfriend won't have a briefcase to put them in... Angel - you've heard some of the adult perspectives on this; clearly it's not unheard of. But you'll have to decide and interpret where your boyfriend is coming from in your particuar situation - we can't guess that for sure. The thing that I think of is: is there any chance that your underwear would become a "trophy" that he might ever share or display to brag in front of the boys? Proof that he "did you", maybe? This is kind of like "sexting" - you may trust him now, but once it's out there, you can't take it back... thats horrible to imagine Link to post Share on other sites
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 26, 2011 Author Share Posted June 26, 2011 Yikes.. In that case, OP, you shouldn't be giving him any underwear. As far as you know he'll be using and showing it off as a trophy... doesnt seem likely but ok. Basically he's telling you, " I want to sniff your underwear later on and spank off at the same time!" lol! Ooookay, I did not know that. OP, keep your panties on! Look, it's a little harmless fun with adults. But teenage boys are a whole different thing, even the good ones are sometimes motivated in mysterious ways by peer pressure and porn and ******* friends. Notice that the two posters who have told you he might want a trophy to show his friends are both men who used to be teenage boys, something to think about. It's a good start, but I would get him a little something else too. If you're really a ginger I bet you'd turn the most amazing shades of red. It would be worth doing for that alone. i'm not ginger but i dyed my fringe red in 2009. Heh heh, yeah. The kid I was in high school would have loved to have been in that position, but.... All I'll admit to for sure is that I've seen 16 Candles. 16 candles? Link to post Share on other sites
Trimmer Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 16 candles? An old movie from long before you were born... The main character gave her panties to one of the other characters so he could convince all his friends he had done it with her. But at least she knew what she was doing when she gave them to him... Link to post Share on other sites
Lady vs Panda Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 i'm not ginger but i dyed my fringe red in 2009. 16 candles? My ginger comment was directed at Ginger Beer. 15-year-old angel, you should keep your panties on until you know this guy a lot better than you do now. I am sure you hate people telling you you are too young, but that is my opinion. Go see if you can find Sixteen Candles on Netflix or Hulu. It'll be a little dated for you, it was even for me and I'm a lot older than you, but it's still a good movie. See also: The Breakfast Club. Link to post Share on other sites
stepka Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 Ooookay, I did not know that. OP, keep your panties on! Look, it's a little harmless fun with adults. But teenage boys are a whole different thing, even the good ones are sometimes motivated in mysterious ways by peer pressure and porn and ******* friends. Notice that the two posters who have told you he might want a trophy to show his friends are both men who used to be teenage boys, something to think about. It's a good start, but I would get him a little something else too. If you're really a ginger I bet you'd turn the most amazing shades of red. It would be worth doing for that alone. Agree with everything here. Yes OP, please don't do this--we have too many crying girls at the counselor's office who've sent things for their bf's eyes only, but the whole team is in on it. Every year we have to call them to an assembly to warn them off this sort of thing. Fortunately boys do grow up, most of them anyway, but until then. . . Link to post Share on other sites
alexlakeman Posted June 26, 2011 Share Posted June 26, 2011 OP, keep your panties on! Notice that the two posters who have told you he might want a trophy to show his friends are both men who used to be teenage boys, something to think about. . Just to be crystal clear, OP, I am guy, and adult.. DON'T do it.. the poster above is right.. Somehow this is something you need to start talking to your parents.. one way or the other it will be best for you, and they might be soooooo piss)ed off at first b/c "god forbid their little baby is even thinking of these things", but they will get over it and as a parent I ASSURE you they rather you hear things from them than from a bunch of strangers online. I would hate it if my kid did this type of questioning on line. I have a boy, so it's different (my instructions to him is.. well, definitely not to keep his pants on, lol).. EVEN as adults us men are not saints, when it comes to pictures, sexting, personal things like girlfriends' underwear etc... JUST do a search on google and see how many hits you get, how many pics, how many threads you see out there of guys posting their trophy underwear from the g/f, the pics, the text messages, etc... Recently, I heard in the news that exact same thing happen to a 14-15 yrs old, don't remember if it was the local news or ?? Girl texts her pics (I know you are talking about underwear,same shi)t) to her boyfriend, which she "trusted" and she "just knew it all" and "he would never do that" and "he's not like that"; and before you knew it, the b/f had shared it with all his friends in the football team at school or a bunch guys at school. Her rep was that of a slut now (NOT saying she was). First, somehow it was all over the news, second, the parents had to move and put her in a another school b/c she was sooo embarrassed. Haven't mom or dad approached you on these things? Mom, would probably be best.. trust me.. I can only imagine some perv or pedophile pm'ing this girl now from here.. Ok, parent hat off.. Link to post Share on other sites
Art_Critic Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 Yikes.. In that case, OP, you shouldn't be giving him any underwear. As far as you know he'll be using and showing it off as a trophy... I was thinking the same.. trophy... he will brag to his friends that he went all the way with her and has proof.. Don't do it OP... Link to post Share on other sites
TheLawmaker Posted June 27, 2011 Share Posted June 27, 2011 Why not? Some women sell their panties on ebay. (I am not advising you do this, OP! You're 15!) In fact, I change my answer. 15 year olds should not be trading pieces of their undergarments with 15 year old boys. You're underage. Link to post Share on other sites
Author angel_tenniser Posted July 13, 2011 Author Share Posted July 13, 2011 (edited) An old movie from long before you were born... The main character gave her panties to one of the other characters so he could convince all his friends he had done it with her. But at least she knew what she was doing when she gave them to him... cool i guess its ok to give them if she did =a My ginger comment was directed at Ginger Beer. 15-year-old angel, you should keep your panties on until you know this guy a lot better than you do now. I am sure you hate people telling you you are too young, but that is my opinion. Go see if you can find Sixteen Candles on Netflix or Hulu. It'll be a little dated for you, it was even for me and I'm a lot older than you, but it's still a good movie. See also: The Breakfast Club. thanks i will watch! i like being youngerized if my boyfriend is older because its fun to be told i am illegal <3 and when dog walking i like my nieghbor because he is 20 years older but flirty about my dress, but other than that i prefer to be old =a Agree with everything here. Yes OP, please don't do this--we have too many crying girls at the counselor's office who've sent things for their bf's eyes only, but the whole team is in on it. Every year we have to call them to an assembly to warn them off this sort of thing. Fortunately boys do grow up, most of them anyway, but until then. . . my boyfriends not in a team and i do not show his cute hardon pics off. Just to be crystal clear, OP, I am guy, and adult.. DON'T do it.. the poster above is right.. Somehow this is something you need to start talking to your parents.. one way or the other it will be best for you, and they might be soooooo piss)ed off at first b/c "god forbid their little baby is even thinking of these things", but they will get over it and as a parent I ASSURE you they rather you hear things from them than from a bunch of strangers online. I would hate it if my kid did this type of questioning on line. I have a boy, so it's different (my instructions to him is.. well, definitely not to keep his pants on, lol).. EVEN as adults us men are not saints, when it comes to pictures, sexting, personal things like girlfriends' underwear etc... JUST do a search on google and see how many hits you get, how many pics, how many threads you see out there of guys posting their trophy underwear from the g/f, the pics, the text messages, etc... Recently, I heard in the news that exact same thing happen to a 14-15 yrs old, don't remember if it was the local news or ?? Girl texts her pics (I know you are talking about underwear,same shi)t) to her boyfriend, which she "trusted" and she "just knew it all" and "he would never do that" and "he's not like that"; and before you knew it, the b/f had shared it with all his friends in the football team at school or a bunch guys at school. Her rep was that of a slut now (NOT saying she was). First, somehow it was all over the news, second, the parents had to move and put her in a another school b/c she was sooo embarrassed. Haven't mom or dad approached you on these things? Mom, would probably be best.. trust me.. I can only imagine some perv or pedophile pm'ing this girl now from here.. Ok, parent hat off.. dad is not my 1st dad he is a step one so its too scary to ask him and my mom only talks about saving myself. i think she will be really mean to me if i talk about my boyfriend taking panties. anyways i gave my boyfriend my panties and he said he likes them in his bed because it makes his hardon =a and so that makes me happy hehe. Edited July 13, 2011 by angel_tenniser Link to post Share on other sites
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