guitar16 Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 So me and my ex broke up about a month ago (I'm 19, she's 18). We "talked" for about a month before we dated, yet we only dated for a month. We broke up because she didn't feel it anymore, and I didn't put up a huge fight or anything and have been in NC since the day we broke up. She was not the type of girl you could bring home to mom, I guess you could say, so I knew the relationship would not last forever and I would not end up with this girl. But I did have true feelings for her - albeit only a couple of months worth of feelings, but feelings nonetheless. When I look back on the relationship, I don't really miss it all that much. I do miss her, wonder what she's doing at times, etc. but I don't get upset when I think about us being together. However, the sexual chemistry we had was ridiculous. I was extremely extremely attracted to her and vice versa (I assume), and had absolutely amazing sex. The thing is, the only time I miss her is when I think about her in a sexual sense. I think about her being with another guy sexually and it upsets me. I think about her body and past times with her and it upsets me. I basically miss the sexual aspect of our relationship more than anything else, which is new to me. I really did like this girl, but it seems the emotional feelings for her diminished before the sexual feelings did. How can I get past this? I worry that if I am with another girl sexually, she will not compare and it will make things worse. I don't really know how to handle this, since this is the first time I've been faced with this situation. Help me please!
Geya Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 Hey! You're still soo young! You'll get an even better experience I'm 100% positive, don't worry about it, every girl is attractive in her own way, you'll find your next gf just as attractive if not more, but in a different more special way ;D don't worry about it, you'll find something good, promise
Sugarkane Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 I can totally relate, as I had fantastic chemistry with my ex aswell. I've tried seeing other people since the breakup, but one I had absolutely no chemistry with teh new guy. Someone posted once about missing the sex now that he's single. People replied and told him to have flings etc. But when I posted people told me the opposite, just because I'm female.
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