Thieves Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 In your opinion, what is the definition of a player? And can a person only be one or the other - a nice guy or a player? Like let's say that a man doesn't have a problem attracting good-looking women - and he kind of knows this. He's sweet, charming, a gentleman, but very sexual. While he doesn't seem to take advantage of women on purpose and he doesn't sleep with just anyone right off the bat, he's still gone through quite a few women in his past and he has a habit of jumping from relationship to relationship. At the same time, he's not a liar and you know that he has a good heart at the end of the day. Would you label this person as a "player" and a nice guy? Or is he just a nice guy that sucks at relationships?
Lady vs Panda Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 A player lies to women either outright or by omission, misleading them. He is usually just using them for sex and playing manipulative games to get them interested and get them into bed, and they're just interchangeable vaginas to him. A man who's honest with women and just enjoys their company and has a lot of sex and leaves them feeling like they had a good time and weren't used, that's more what I think of as a Casanova. Players like to think they're Casanovas, but they're just dark and injurious twists on the sparkly sexy theme. It seems like there aren't very many Casanovas anymore. A man who's honest with women and selective sexually but jumps from relationship to relationship is just a regular nice guy who hasn't figured out what makes him click yet and is still looking for himself and for the right girl. Tons of those guys out there.
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