SJC2008 Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 First I'll refresh you all on my background. Approaching 30 and have never had an official gf, am not a virgin but might as well be since its been so long. Tried harder this year to get a gf (my problem is in the approaching women and breakng the ice stage )got a date cold approach (1st time ever!)and got blown off after 1 date so that was a blow to my ego. Anyway, Met nice middle aged woman customer at work 42. Had good convo with her. She did not go in the waiting room she kept talking to me. Flirted a little and she reciprocated. I asked her if she has ever been married and she said was divorced 13yrs ago and has not had a serious r since. Well my male brain read that as nsa, then she started ranting on christianity and invited me to church with her but my sched didnt match. There were some coupons for a discount for the circus which is in town on the counter so she said mabye you can take me to the circus. Im going to take her out and see what happens. This seems like a perfect opportunity for an experienced women to "show me the ropes" so I can gain exp. and confidence an find me a woman but I dont want to use her and hurt her.But she did say she hasnt been serious since divorce. How do I approach?
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