AlisaMarie Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 Uggg... I was doing so well. When we first broke up 3 days zipped by and I felt great! Then he started some drama about dumb stuff still at my house and I did my best to keep it short and not give a reaction... just told him to back off and I will make arrangements for his items. Of course I am evil, a monster, and a bad person. Why? Because I didn't want to see him? He still has things of mine but I don't even care. Today has been a week since the break up, but only day 2 of NC and it hurts more than it did last week. I am sick. Some other events happened but I don't want to go public because it's very personal and could destroy his life. I am beside myself. I need encouragement to pull through this... please help.
WTRanger Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 There are few things more liberating in this life than having your worst fear realized. It is our failure to become our perceived ideal that ultimately defines us and makes us unique. It’s not easy, but if you accept your misfortune and handle it right, your perceived failure can be a catalyst for profound re-invention. Me thinks it's time for some re-invention within you.
Author AlisaMarie Posted June 25, 2011 Author Posted June 25, 2011 There are few things more liberating in this life than having your worst fear realized. It is our failure to become our perceived ideal that ultimately defines us and makes us unique. It’s not easy, but if you accept your misfortune and handle it right, your perceived failure can be a catalyst for profound re-invention. Me thinks it's time for some re-invention within you. WT- seriously, I have been telling friends and family that this girl, after 33 years is just not working out. Esp in the dept of relationships. But I promise you ... it's not me, it really is them. I am caring, honest, loyal... but maybe I am taking advantage of. Maybe I let it happen. My girlfriends always tell me... I wish I was a dude because I'd wife you up in a second! I have much going on for myself and (not bragging) get mistaken for being in my early 20s all the time! Sooooo!??? What do I reinvent here? I like me... maybe I just don't love me.
WTRanger Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 Perhaps part of your re-invention is figuring out why you are attracted to and seek out "project" men. The fixer-uppers if you will. Why you felt the need, given the unholy amount of red flags, to give this guy a 2nd/3rd chance.
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