lalalandman Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 So it's been 2 weeks NC again. She started calling from Blocked a few times. I don't pick up Blocked Calls. Just wanted to post on here, get some feedback, from those who know my situation. It's tough not picking up.
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 if the number was blocked how do you know it was her? did she leave a voice mail and if so what did she say?
Author lalalandman Posted June 25, 2011 Author Posted June 25, 2011 One. And I mean, only ONE person calls from Blocked. and twice in a row. Trust me. But she knows I don't pick up blocked calls.
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 if it were me I would surprise her and pick up the phone the second time she calls, she's the one calling so she should be the one with something to say lol. but if you don't feel that you could do that and not be hurt in the end don't do it.
BrokenFool Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 lalalandman - I know exactly what you going through, I have had this same mobile number for 8 years , never received blocked calls, break up with her , go NC and low and behold blocked calls start coming in on one tuesday a month back 07.56 08.33 08.34 and so on , 7 in total i KNOW its her but if i pick up im 90% sure she wont speak or if i contact her to find out if it was her she will say NO so my question is - what do you do about these calls asides from ignore and could this not be classed as an opportunity missed to speak to your other half, or will the fact you didnt answer get to them more and get them to try harder somewhere down the line anybody with any personal experience who can shed some light on this will be my saviour
Author lalalandman Posted June 25, 2011 Author Posted June 25, 2011 i don't know but my ex is completely aware that I do NOT pick up blocked calls.
scarlett27 Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 text the number back and say to make u aware these calls are now harrasment and has been reported to police and to my network - so good luck and leave it
Author lalalandman Posted June 25, 2011 Author Posted June 25, 2011 When it comes to ex's calling after being dumped, I think it's somewhat important that you make sure they are questioning your feelings. Ignoring them does this best. Sad, I know.
Author lalalandman Posted June 25, 2011 Author Posted June 25, 2011 text the number back and say to make u aware these calls are now harrasment and has been reported to police and to my network - so good luck and leave it Texting her Blocked Call will just come back undelivered
scarlett27 Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 lala why dont u contact her another way then ? facebook email watever and say please stop calling me this is not helping u or me
Author lalalandman Posted June 25, 2011 Author Posted June 25, 2011 lala why dont u contact her another way then ? facebook email watever and say please stop calling me this is not helping u or me I deleted my FB. I don't want to contact her. She's highly manipulative.
scarlett27 Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 well in that case , you will have to be the bigger person , ignore the calls or change ur number if it gets that bad she sound mental
Author lalalandman Posted June 25, 2011 Author Posted June 25, 2011 Yes she is mental. I would love to work it out but she's stubborn, hard-headed and MENTAL.
scarlett27 Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 lol move on then my dear , my ex was bi polar so was actually really mental and it was bloody hard work
Author lalalandman Posted June 25, 2011 Author Posted June 25, 2011 The scary part is I went out with a girl last night who's been texting me all week (her name is the same as my ex, just spelled differently), and it turns out she's even MORE mental. She was the most drama i've ever dealt with and cried at random. So I'm just like, WTF
Author lalalandman Posted June 25, 2011 Author Posted June 25, 2011 Yes, I think I need more guy friends in my life anyways.
Author lalalandman Posted June 25, 2011 Author Posted June 25, 2011 (edited) if it were me I would surprise her and pick up the phone the second time she calls, she's the one calling so she should be the one with something to say lol. but if you don't feel that you could do that and not be hurt in the end don't do it. She dumped me. If she really had something to say, it would take more than 2 Blocked Calls to tell me. That's just called fishing my friend. Edited June 25, 2011 by lalalandman
TheHurtProcess Posted June 26, 2011 Posted June 26, 2011 She dumped me. If she really had something to say, it would take more than 2 Blocked Calls to tell me. That's just called fishing my friend. Good thinking, bud. That's what I'm saying. If she dumped you then it's her job to try to win you back. Make her work for it. I straight up told myself that I'm not even going to consider taking her back unless she shows up at my door, gets on her knees and literally begs/cries for me to come back. Then, like I said, I might just consider it... And after a very small amount of consideration I'd tell her to "F**K off!", hehe.
Author lalalandman Posted June 26, 2011 Author Posted June 26, 2011 I don't know, I'm sort of getting to the point where I don't give a **** anymore.
Sugarkane Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 I wished that I'd never answered when my ex did this. He contacted me a few times and I ignored them. But then curiousity got the better of me and I answered. He claimed that he missed me, everything would be different etc etc. PROMISED to meet me that week. Well a month later he still hadn't even botehred to meet me. Ahole!
Sugarkane Posted June 27, 2011 Posted June 27, 2011 He always contacts me when he hasn't been laid lol. What an idiot.
Author lalalandman Posted June 28, 2011 Author Posted June 28, 2011 Yea see, when she broke up with me, I tried telling her she was making a mistake. Went 2 weeks NC, she called me, asked to come to her new place, and after all the sweet talk, she threw me out to sea again and starting acting like a beeitch. So I went NC again, and just shy of 2 weeks this past Friday, she calls me again, to which I don't answer. Because she's a bull**** game player and I can't trust her. In any case, I have to step away from Loveshack again. I think I've gotten all the good advice I need and after reading everyone's posts, I know what I need to do. HOPEFULLY, you people won't see me on here again anytime soon. I'm pretty sure that won't be the case. Thanks for all the feedback and good luck.
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