prb8280 Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 Me and my ex were together 7 months and while we were together he always told me it scared him about how much he loved me and one time he even cried! He'd learned a few songs on his guitar and played them for me. (oen was my ringtone for him). While we were together he always respected me and never tried to push me into something I didnt want to do. But In his previous relationship he was cheated on and so he was always worried about that happening again. While we were together there was a girl who was obsessed with him and I'm not sure if it was her but one day he got a text telling him that they were dating me too, so he flipped out and used someone elses phone to call and it was a girl! But he wouldnt tell me who it was or anything. But after that things got really weird. And that girl started telling me he was with her. But when me and her talked everything I said she would say oh he did that for me, or if I'd ask a question she'd just ask the same question and when I'd answer. She'd say oh the same for me. I dont know if she was being honest or not but it just sounded made up to me. But it made me start questioning it and made me nervous bout it and probably started to annoy him. But he started saying he was confused and needed time. So we broke up. He was my first love and my first for other things. I kept texting/calling him and he would just ignore me. After awhile he started texting me but they were just little pointless convos. And that girl started saying they were together and she'd write on his facebook and he'd just delete it. And would tell me they werent together. And things went back to no contact. And I texted him and we started talking every once in awhile and hanging out... even hooking up. He started telling me he still loved me and missed me. And I got caught back up into all that. One day after we hung out he left a key in my room and I told him he left it but he just ignored it and never said anything about it. Another day after hanging I talked to the girl who said they were together. I know that they started hanging out I just dont know what exactly went on. But then he stopped talking to me after I talked to her. And would just ignore me, then one day I brought up the key again. And said I wasnt going to hang on to it anymore. And he asked what key and I told him when he left it and that it looked like a spare truck key. and he said he doubted it was his. But I told him that no one else was in my room so it had to be his. And he just stopped talking to me. Then my cousin got drunk and mad at him so she called him and called this girl! Making me look psycho, and he told me to grow up. And that was the last time I heard from him. I havent tried to contact him and he hasnt tried to contact me. Its been 3 weeks. And I probably sound crazy but I just cant get past him. And the whole time him and that girl were "together" I know of him hanging with other girls and doing who knows what. And I know if he is cheating on all those girls and doing who knows what I dont wanna be with him. But I just cant forget about him, and he's moved on like it was nothing and that he had no feelings for me. And I might be crazy but in my heart I know he really cared about me. And I think he just got scared, he'd always tell me it scared him how much he loved me and that he was scared of getting hurt. But now its over, and I dont think he's ever going to talk to me again, and it hurts so much. I still love him. I keep hearing he's going to come back, for whatever reason even after we broke up he couldnt leave me alone. But now its been 3 weeks. The longest we've ever went without atleast one of us trying to make contact. Is he ever gonna try to contact me again or anything? I just feel in my gut that me and him are meant to be. (I know that probably sounds so stupid, but I cant shake the feeling) p.s. sorry if this all rambled together, I just hate how I cant move on, and I keep hearing bout him and all these girls. He just turned off his feelings like it was nothing.
pd8mxq Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 So your point is? If you need moving on, find yr friends, hang out with them. U r doing great for NC 3 weeks. Time will heal you trsut me. He was only with u for 7 months right. It will go so quick and u wont even think about him very soon. You sound very young, so this is normal for a first time. There are tons of guys out there, dont waste your youth especially u r a girl. Good luck
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