bigcal9 Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 So I was dating this girl for roughly 4 months and everything was perfect (as hard as that is to believe). No arguments, no trust issues, I mean everything was going GREAT. But then she just ended it, all of a sudden. She said she needed her "space". So I decided the best thing I could do was give it to her and leave her alone. 2 weeks ago she went on a trip and before she left (and even while she was on her trip!) she sent me a few messages saying she was sorry and that she missed me and wanted to see me again. So of course I get my hopes up with the expectation that she would contact me and visit me when she returned. Well guess what...she hasn't contacted me yet since she got back a few days ago. Long story short, the past few weeks haven't been easy and I don't know what to think. Why would someone say things like she "misses you and wants to see you" and then just ignore you? Who does that? I guess the best thing to do is simply try to move forward. Breakups suck.
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 because if you respond to something like that and say "I miss you to" or "I want to see you again to" it feeds their ego and lets them know that you are still on their leash.
Leftie88 Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 Agreed. I regret ever telling my ex i still loved him and his reply was not the same a few months after. So if she really means it, she'll contact you again, you shouldnt have to put yourself up in a vulnerable position. But dont wait around either...!
Author bigcal9 Posted June 24, 2011 Author Posted June 24, 2011 totally agree on the part about not waiting around. the best thing people have told me to do is keep busy which I am trying to do. if she contacts me again, great. if not, then ill just move forward. we'll see...
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