cjo1978 Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 Just looking for some advice here. i have liked someone since high school (about15 years ago) and had a crush on her at school. she recently added me as a friend on facebook and i only have her email and facebook details. i dont know anything else about her like where she goes out at weekends or even where she lives. i was going to email her to see if she would like to go for something to eat but wanted some advice on what to say cos ill need to send her an email. Any help would be appreciated. thanks......
smudge21 Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 Email is a bit one off, a bit inpersonal. Could you get her on FB chat maybe or at least something where you're both doing it at the same time, the replies are instant. Maybe then you can have a chat and at some point just ask her for her phone number so you can make it more personal. You need to build up that chat first and FB can help with that (it occasionally has it's uses). Just keep it casual and then slip in something like "wouldn't it be easier to talk in person?" - then suggest a coffee or whatever, something simple and friendly. Finally, try not to over think things. No matter what she says or does, you have NO IDEA what is going on in her mind/life and can only second guess. Don't do it. Just enjoy the build and see where it goes. Life's a journey, not a destination!
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