hk981 Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 My boyfriend of over a year recently broke up with me. He said he still wanted to be friends but I still have feelings for him and want to be with him and feel like I'm getting really mixed signals. Before the break up, we had made joint appointments to get tattoos. Mine was going to be a belated birthday present so he was paying for it. Even though we broke up we still went to the appointment together and he still paid for mine. He even sat with me through the whole thing and brought me snacks. He has also still been coming into the coffee shop where I work and when he does come in it's when he knows I'll be working or when I'm just getting off my shift. Today was my day off and I went to my work to get breakfast and a little bit after I got there he showed up. We even sat down together for a little while and talked. When we were leaving the only thing that seemed odd was that he said "i'll see you around." I'm just really confused. If he broke up with me then why is he still coming into where I work? And why is he acting so nonchalant about the whole break up? please help!
iceweasel6 Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 My boyfriend of over a year recently broke up with me. He said he still wanted to be friends but I still have feelings for him and want to be with him and feel like I'm getting really mixed signals. Before the break up, we had made joint appointments to get tattoos. Mine was going to be a belated birthday present so he was paying for it. Even though we broke up we still went to the appointment together and he still paid for mine. He even sat with me through the whole thing and brought me snacks. He has also still been coming into the coffee shop where I work and when he does come in it's when he knows I'll be working or when I'm just getting off my shift. Today was my day off and I went to my work to get breakfast and a little bit after I got there he showed up. We even sat down together for a little while and talked. When we were leaving the only thing that seemed odd was that he said "i'll see you around." I'm just really confused. If he broke up with me then why is he still coming into where I work? And why is he acting so nonchalant about the whole break up? please help! Three sentences. He still likes you. If you like him and want to get back together, tell him in plain transparent english. If not, tell him to beat it. Simple huh?
Ultrasonic Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 I don't think it's so simple. Why did he break up with you? What reason did he give you? Showing up at your work and then randomly showing up on your day off, right when you do? That sounds like stalking IMO. Maybe he thought he another girl lined up and it blew up in his face? Maybe it didn't blow up in his face and he just realized he's an idiot. Maybe he didn't like her and is trying to get you back before he loses his chance? There are literally hundreds of scenarios you could think up over what's going on. Though I agree with Iceweasel, maybe you should sit him down and tell him that you're still interested in being in a relationship; and if he isn't, then you're not ready to be friends with him and need your space.
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