lipvixen2011 Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 I had posted a new thread last night about how I called it off with a guy that I have been dating for the past 2 months because I still saw him online occasionally. Here's the thread: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t284035/ Not that I was on myself searching for guys. Long story short, I got so upset that I saw him online yesterday morning that I sent him a text telling him that I didn't think we should talk or see each other anymore because I wanted someone that only wanted to date me. BIG MISTAKE. I felt horrible after I sent the text. So anyway, I later texted him saying I was sorry for how I ended things (via text) and that we should talk, NO RESPONSE, then I emailed him my feelings on why I did what I did. NO RESPONSE until this morning. This is his email to me responding to my "what was a thinking" email: "hmmm, that's pretty amazing that you saw me online yesterday at all since I was at the bombing range from 8am until 8pm. but whatever, im glad you jumped to conlusions instead of asking me why I was online (which would've been impossible). I'm off to the range again today, but maybe you'll see me online again. who knows. I wish you the best and hope but nothing but great things for you." I then emailed him back a few hours later telling him I was sorry and that I overreacted and should have came to him if I had any questions or concerns. I know he's been at work all day at the bombing range (he's in the Airforce) so I'm not sure if he's read it yet or just waiting to respond or not respond at all. It was so stupid what I did I have to admit and everyone keeps telling me I shouldn't jump to conclusions since we're only dating and haven't had the "boyfriend and girlfriend" talk. Now I feel horrible and hope i didn't lose him for good. Everything was going so great too. I just visited him for the 2nd time last week in Las Vegas where he lives (I'm in California). He had been a little distance this past week before but it was because of work but he still texted me and called me once a day up until Tuesday night and then yesterday morning is when I sent the text out of nowhere. He had no clue it was coming! I'm wondering if he's thinking about me and just pissed off and confused as to why I did what I did or totally done with me. Again, we've never had an argument or discussion about anything like that. Things were good. So now I don't know what to think, it's only been a day and half since it all happened and he emailed me back this morning before work. I'm starting the NC today and if he emails me back great (hopefully forgiving me) and if not at all..should I just wait things out until he responds to me? I'd say a week tops since we've only been dating for 2 months. I know I effed up but I was being irrational at the moment and you know how you feel after you hit that send button on the phone and totally regret it afterwards? Especially when you know you could have handled it better? I just hope he tries to give us another chance..until then I guess I'll just sit and wait and try to keep busy! Has this happened to anyone before?
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