alexlakeman Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 Preface: I would add this to my online dating thread, but want to make sure "hopefully" I get some thoughts... Cliff's notes: Meet woman from online and she seems perfect.. TOO perfect.. Is she for real? I got burned about ten years ago with a similar scenario, "woman and I liked the same shi)t, we had the same likes, etc.., then , umm, stold mid 5 figures from me over time" So I met this woman 2 weeks ago from Match... we talked on the phone: Positive: She liked the same musicShe has a kid same age as minesShe lives / works in my area, very closeShe is very well maintained, looks very good, nice body, umm, fits in a bikini, no wrinkles, nice mani and pedi, dresses awsome...Likes the same party / going out lifestyle I do.We seemed to "click"..no sex yet,,,...just follow along Sex? I could've had it the first night, but I was on a time crunch... BUT I know I could've had it if I wanted it..Last relationship was a 20 year marriage.. Pretty stable right?Five years younger than I, looks very well maintained...waist size? No idea, but my hands fit very nicely around the waist.I tell her if we get serious, we would need full std tests b4 unprotected sex and her answer? OK.."Claims" she is going back to school to wrap up the last 2 years of nursing.. Undergrad or grad degree is very important to me as I would prefer someone in the same education/financial level. Negative / Questionable? Most of the stuff we agree on or "matched" I was the one that brought them up. So I am wondering if she is just agreeing with me on everything.Third marriage. Claims the first two were mistakes and only lasted 1 and 2 yrs. Kid is from the 20 year marriage .Calls me tonight and tells me she's at abc hotel...meet her there.. I know I am good, but NOT that hot, lol... Either she's the perfect woman, or I am being set up...and she's just looking for a sugar daddy ... I was veryyyyyyyyyyyyy clear of where I stand financially when it comes to women.. I am wondering if she's just looking for someone to cover her financially. SHe has not mentioned anything, but... Gotta run.. Thoughts?
D-Lish Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 It's hard to say before you spend more time with her. I'm assuming you left to meet her at the hotel? lol.
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