Velociraptor Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 I see alot of men talking about having anal sex with their wife or girlfriend, or wanting their wife or girlfriend to give them blowjobs. what would you think if your daughter had anal sex or gave her husband/boyfriend blowjobs? i bet you would feel horrible if you knew about it and would want to beat her guy up, right? i would anyway... i wouldnt do anything with my wife/girlfriend that i wouldnt want my daughter(if i had one) to do with her boyfriend/husband.
LadyFlame Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 In relation to the actual topic: I love giving blowjobs. I actually love it more than sex (especially if the guy isn't that big). Anal sex is OK after the initial discomfort of actually inserting it but then the feeling when he cums is just MAGNIFICENT, much sexier than when he comes in the vagina, though when he ejaculates in the mouth that's pretty sexy too.
TheLawmaker Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 What are you doing thinking about your daughter, in sexual terms? You do realize that's incest, right? Even if you don't actually act on it?
Els Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 Oh come on, I'm a woman and I call bull**** on that. Just because a woman wants her husband to go down on her doesn't mean she likes imagining her son going down on another woman, and vice versa.
Untouchable_Fire Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 I see alot of men talking about having anal sex with their wife or girlfriend, or wanting their wife or girlfriend to give them blowjobs. what would you think if your daughter had anal sex or gave her husband/boyfriend blowjobs? i bet you would feel horrible if you knew about it and would want to beat her guy up, right? i would anyway... i wouldnt do anything with my wife/girlfriend that i wouldnt want my daughter(if i had one) to do with her boyfriend/husband. I would personally trust my daughter to do whatever she is comfortable with and enjoys doing. Same as me.
OhMittens Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 I'm my daughter is an adult and wants to perform these acts then so be it. Who am I to say what she does with her body?
OpenBook Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 Whatever she chooses to do is fine with me. I don't want my daughter to feel any shame about her sexuality. (There's no shame in it.) She owns it. If her H/BF ever forced her to do anything against her will, I would be in prison. Because he would be dead.
Andy_K Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 I'd see nothing wrong with my daughter doing any of those things when she's a suitable age. I've got no double standard or madonna-whore complex. I think a lot of guys would say the same. I also don't judge or think negatively of girls who 'put out easily' or anything like that
Cee Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 I'll use my niece as an example (I have no children). My greatest fear for her is to use sex as a way to get love or engage in self-destructive behavior such as unprotected sex or sex with men who are abusive. I have no fear about which act she chooses, but rather the man chooses to have sex with.
oldguy Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 (edited) I see alot of men talking about having anal sex with their wife or girlfriend, or wanting their wife or girlfriend to give them blowjobs. what would you think if your daughter had anal sex or gave her husband/boyfriend blowjobs? i bet you would feel horrible if you knew about it and would want to beat her guy up, right? i would anyway... i wouldnt do anything with my wife/girlfriend that i wouldnt want my daughter(if i had one) to do with her boyfriend/husband. You raise your children the absolute best way you can and then you let them live their lives. I've learned to be supportive but allow them to make their own choices. Even when asked, if you give your opinion you will often loose, because they will either disagree and you will be the jerk or they follow your advice and resent it and you. I made my share of mistakes but raised my kids the best I could & they have been on their own for quite awhile now & have both stumbled but are both doing very well & I couldn't be prouder. I have to admit, their sex lives don't come up often & they've never ask for my advice in that matter, TG. Keep in mind, I was a relationship therapist so other people did asked me. I also believe that if someone doesn't ask you to save them from themselves don't assume they need to be saved & take it upon yourself to do so. In summation; Butt out & let your adult children live their lives & you just continue to do your best not to screw yours up. Edited June 24, 2011 by oldguy
oldguy Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 By the way, my wife and i have a great sex life but I don't discuss it with her father, (or anyone for that matter). And I think my son-in-law is a great guy but I never, ever think about his sex life with my daughter, HIS wife, or anyone else s for that matter. I think you are probably quite young & will eventually get over this concern of yours, I hope.
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