RuinedLife Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 Have seen my double X bf online lately and have been tempted to talk to him again to try and distract myself from my current heartache and loss of my best friend. He's a little weird, but has been about 6 years since I last heard from him... Crazy I guess, I'm just so lonely. I'm really grasping at straws here.
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 I would be a little weary of contacting an ex-ex, yeah it could help you short term but it also could resurface other painful emotions.
Author RuinedLife Posted June 23, 2011 Author Posted June 23, 2011 I would be a little weary of contacting an ex-ex, yeah it could help you short term but it also could resurface other painful emotions. Yeah I guess you're right. I'm just so lonely. Maybe I could just try messaging him really casually, just to see how he's doing. I don't know I'm just desperate for a new friend to talk to, even if its just an old ex online I guess... I know desperation is really bad, but I honestly am that lonely, stuck in my room on my own nearly all the time...
Eddie Edirol Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 Yeah I guess you're right. I'm just so lonely. Maybe I could just try messaging him really casually, just to see how he's doing. I don't know I'm just desperate for a new friend to talk to, even if its just an old ex online I guess... I know desperation is really bad, but I honestly am that lonely, stuck in my room on my own nearly all the time... If you dumped him, then dont. That would be cruel if he might still have feelings. If he is in a serious relationship, then it might not be so bad.
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 if you want someone to talk to I can make another AIM account (because my current one contains my name). obviously I can't be on all the time but I have the next few days off from work because it's raining here.
Author RuinedLife Posted June 23, 2011 Author Posted June 23, 2011 If you dumped him, then dont. That would be cruel if he might still have feelings. If he is in a serious relationship, then it might not be so bad. Well he dumped me, and I've no idea if he's in a relationship or not. But while I was dating him (5 month LDR) he was often talking to his ex gfs online, talking to them on the phone even. Yeah I know its weird and I know I'd be a major hypocrite if I started doing that too. But I seriously have no other friends now. I have family, but my brother is going away on holiday for a few weeks so it'll be just me and my parents again and they're really busy with other things and I'm really ill so can't do much. if you want someone to talk to I can make another AIM account (because my current one contains my name). obviously I can't be on all the time but I have the next few days off from work because it's raining here. Thanks for the offer. I don't use AIM but I guess I could create an account. I use MSN mostly.
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 my aim screen name is HrtOfAFeenix heartofaphoenix was taken . I can't use MSN because I don't use windows, well I could but I would need access to a windows machine in order to create an account, and link that account to my computer.
Author RuinedLife Posted June 23, 2011 Author Posted June 23, 2011 my aim screen name is HrtOfAFeenix heartofaphoenix was taken . Really?? HeartOfaPhoenix was taken? That sucks. I'm going for dinner soon, but will set up an account later, and sign in. Sure I'll see you on there at some point. Thanks.
HeartOfAPhoenix Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 I'll set my status to 'invisible' (it will say I'm offline but I will still get your messages). send me a message when you sign in, I'll get the message on my computer and then I'll have your screen name. I may not be at my computer then but I'll at least have your screen name lol.
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