LK30 Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 Urgh, seems like very girl I meet has a boyfriend or not interested. I've been online dating for months and despite various chats everything fizzles out or I never get any replies! I'm gonna give up! I'm 32 and lonely! Can't even get any fun lol!! Stupidly saw my ex's brother's profile on FB and my ex had been messaging him saying she's busy at work and busy partying too. She sounds really happy and expect she's getting attention every week from blokes. As for me, just getting nowhere. WHY did I look?!! Made my heart beat fast and I split from her 16 months ago! Just needed to vent as I spent loads on new clothes and hair style recently and it feels like it's been for nothing. I'm very upset :-(
Author LK30 Posted June 23, 2011 Author Posted June 23, 2011 I think I might just join the monastery! I know people are thinking sort yourself out and stop moaning, but something must be wrong to be in this situation!
LadyFlame Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 If you have a large penis and a nice face, I would consider helping you with your problem
Author LK30 Posted June 23, 2011 Author Posted June 23, 2011 Not the sort of response I was expecting.
LadyFlame Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 Well, you did say how you were having an enormous amount of difficulty finding a girl.
Sugarkane Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 Its a shame you're not over here in OZ, I love English guys.
oaks Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 Urgh, seems like very girl I meet has a boyfriend or not interested. I've been online dating for months and despite various chats everything fizzles out or I never get any replies! I'm gonna give up! I'm 32 and lonely! Can't even get any fun lol!! You're "East of London", so assuming you're close enough to travel to London to date a girl then there's no shortage of single girls. On the other hand, if you're way out in Southend then perhaps the dating pool is smaller. Tell us about your online dating profile... Are you using the big free sites (OK Cupid and Plenty of Fish) or something else? Describe your photos... those make a big difference. What do you say when you first contact a girl you like on a dating site?
northstar1 Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 Urgh, seems like very girl I meet has a boyfriend or not interested. I've been online dating for months and despite various chats everything fizzles out or I never get any replies! I'm gonna give up! I'm 32 and lonely! Can't even get any fun lol!! Stupidly saw my ex's brother's profile on FB and my ex had been messaging him saying she's busy at work and busy partying too. She sounds really happy and expect she's getting attention every week from blokes. As for me, just getting nowhere. WHY did I look?!! Made my heart beat fast and I split from her 16 months ago! Just needed to vent as I spent loads on new clothes and hair style recently and it feels like it's been for nothing. I'm very upset :-( LK - don't worry about what you see from your ex on FB. It means nothing. People use FB as a self-promotion tool often. She's not going to write that she bored, depressed and gained weight. I wouldn't read too much into what anyone puts on there. Don't worry about the dating, it will happen. Just get out there and join some clubs/groups to meet people. Join a running club, or something that interests you (hiking, wine tours, books, photography etc). You'll stay busy and might just meet someone at the same time. Chin up my friend.
GivenUp0083 Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 Why would you allow your happiness to be determined by having a girl?? Be happy on your own, do things you want to do, enjoy your self, travel, hang out with friends, try new things. Women are some of the lowest moral characters on Earth, why would you want to subject yourself to their torture in the first place? Trust me, what you desire is not necessarily going to make you happy. You have to be happy on your own before you can make someone else happy. Once you are happy, you'll start to find women flocking to you, and you'll see them for who they really are and understand that most of them do not deserve a guy like you.
sabienne Posted June 25, 2011 Posted June 25, 2011 Women are some of the lowest moral characters on Earth, why would you want to subject yourself to their torture in the first place? Gee, I really hope the OP listens to you, you sound like a quality bloke with loads of women dying to date you! Totally qualified to help this guy get a date.
Author LK30 Posted June 25, 2011 Author Posted June 25, 2011 Oaks - I've deleted my profiles now. Perhaps I need to meet real people. I admit I do like the idea of online dating as I don't come into face to face contact with girls that often. Bit like most adults, 70% of my life is spent in an office without opportunities, and only about 3%n 'meeting women' situations (i.e. clubs and pubs). Northstar - thank you, wise words as always. You always seem to appear when I need advice. Sounds like someone has asked you to keep an eye on me as my life mentor/coach!
Author LK30 Posted June 27, 2011 Author Posted June 27, 2011 It's funny because I was in the supermarket earlier and I walked past a girl (who was also pushing a trolley) and she half smiled at me (or so i've convinced myself to believe!) and she was really pretty. I walked past her a couple more times later as we crossed paths down different aisles, but she didn't look at me at all. I was driving home and imagining all the things I could have said to her to try to get talking, but at the time I just froze. If only I was in the right place at the right time with the right words to say!
Author LK30 Posted June 29, 2011 Author Posted June 29, 2011 Yet again today I tried talking to a girl and just couldn't find the right opportunity. I work across schools and half got talking to one of the teachers who looks in her mid 20's and attractive, but she was quite shy and then she was distracted sorting out a pupil. I'm going to blame being professional as I would love to have asked her out but I need a few occassions to talk as 'hey, I've never met you before and this is the first time we've spoken, fancy going for a drink?' maybe a bit too much of a 'cold call!!'
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