richdownes89 Posted June 23, 2011 Posted June 23, 2011 Hi, I have been close to this chick, who I am not sure if she is crushing on me at all, for at least three months, the three months before Christmas. We'd been sharing holding hands and been really affection, but most notably, we'd been snuggling up around Christmas. When we were close, we'd been talking about family life and school, she never really seemed to talk to anyone else about her family life. I remember saying her once, when we were close, "Can I have a goodnight kiss?" and I honestly was only expecting "xo". But what I got was a *kisses on the lips goodnight*. We then continue as we are, a mutual female friend of ours, who's happily in a relationship, thought that this girl and I were in a relationship as we were so close. However, for some reason, the primarily girl I was talking to, stopped talking to me. She made me do all the running around etc, after her. But the thing was, one day I stopped talking to her and said I won't be online, thinking my classes would take over, but they didn't and I came online. She gave me a big hug and wouldn't let go of me at all, and called me hun (she never used to). And the mutual friend, said to me "you're two flirtatious people who look like you're in a relationship; totally into another" as we only really talked to another. Then a short time later, the girl, I'm supposedly in a relationship with, starts to ignore me. No reason at all. But once, she replied, when I said hi to her she told me that she'd "never wanted to lose me" and she never specified why. I have since found out she'd been showing, just like waving, on webcam to friends of mine and her. Like 30 seconds, but she won't with me. She gets all defensive with me when I ask her to and she goes "oh, but I have no make-up on!". I think she has a crush on me and hiding away from me, scared of rejection; or the fact that she might reveal something that shows she likes me, i.e. blushing. Would this make sense?
gatzbycap Posted June 24, 2011 Posted June 24, 2011 Well, if she says things about kissing you, then I would say that she is. Some people have confusing behavior, but being close enough to you to hold your hand and discuss kissing you is relatively straight forward. That, along with telling you things that she doesn't discuss with others leads me to believe that she thinks very highly of you. The webcam thing could easily be her own personal quirk. Good luck to you!
Author richdownes89 Posted July 13, 2011 Author Posted July 13, 2011 Well, if she says things about kissing you, then I would say that she is. Some people have confusing behavior, but being close enough to you to hold your hand and discuss kissing you is relatively straight forward. That, along with telling you things that she doesn't discuss with others leads me to believe that she thinks very highly of you. The webcam thing could easily be her own personal quirk. Good luck to you! Well, thing is, she hasn't done it for a fair while since, but she and I used to and she is possibly nervous about doing it in public, in front of her friends, that have done it in public before. I know how you mean with the confusing behaviour, but since then, nothing. I wonder if someone hurt her, as she did get hurt by someone and as a result of them, I'm suffering too. I thought she did at one point, but why would she act so weird with me, as I have only done what others have done with her and she's been compliant with? I often wonder if she's hiding from me, would that make sense? Thank you for your answer.
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